Voluntary wet dreams

Usually, wet dreams are involuntary or semi-conscious, but not fully voluntary. What makes yours voluntary? I don't think setting up the condition by PMO abstinence would count. And also, involuntary dreams never count either; they are quite natural to male biology and function. There's no culpability, nor any breaking of recovery in having them. However, I once knew someone who inordinately looked forward to sex dreams every night, as if he were always looking at a sexual TV guide and was deciding what would be on the dream screen that night. That's is a bit pathetic and somewhat an obsessive thinking about sex all the time, which in itself is counterproductive to recovery. But, I don't think that's what you're talking about either.
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I would guess that if you tried to invite them through thoughts before bed that it wouldn't work. You would have already processed the narrative; so, the dreamwork wouldn't be necessary. Also, you are worse off by voluntarily inventing porn in your mind while awake - like edging, dopamine-spiking behavior. Get set for a new addiction. Congrats!