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Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Ryanellion, Jul 4, 2015.

  1. Ryanellion

    Ryanellion Fapstronaut

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    I wanna make a closed group of guys 10-30 for a 30 day challenge with the following rules:

    1) no PMO
    2) 5 minutes of cold showers every day
    3) 30 minutes of exercise every day
    4) no touching your dick unless it's to piss
    5) check-in post as soon as you wake up, and before you fall sleep

    I will have a ranking system to allow novices to become more accomplished and I will promote based on merit...

    Benifits...
    -knowing your a part of something bigger than yourself
    -constantly improving yourself
    -see your own progress and others' to help each other to learn and grow

    With the check in post, each guy will have to confirm that he's keeping to the challenge. In addition, he'll have to post about something he's learned today.

    Who's in?
     
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  2. I'd be in if it wasn't for the 5 minute cold shower. Not a bad thing if it were hot here, but....

    Can it be five minutes of turning the hot water gradually down until you can't take it any colder? (I'm good at pushing myself -- ex. I just injured my knee because I've been running so hard.)
     
  3. GoAway

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    I think one minute under my shower at the coldest temperature is hard, I wouldn't be able to stand under the cold water for 5 minutes :/
     
  4. drawoh

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    I want to be a part of this.
     
  5. Ryanellion

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    @drawoh great, send me a message with the details of your nofap journey so far and what you'd like to get out of our tribe.
    @GoAway I never said the COLDEST temperature cold shower friend, just cold if cold for you is the middle of the nob so be, just enough to be challenging, uncomfortable and beneficial.
     
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  7. Ryanellion

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    @detoream tell me how did you come about the nofap community, and what's your journey been like before?
     
  8. HSOnd

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    i would really like to join!
     
  9. Ryanellion

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    @HSOnd great, tell me about your Nofap journey so far...
     
  10. I like the check in posts. Kinda like journalling.

    I tell ya, this alone on a holiday thing is tough without PMO.
     
  11. g2stop

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  12. sivavs

    sivavs Guest

  13. It's late and I'm headed to bed. I was pretty lonely today. Somehow I made it through.

    I slept a bit. Kept munching without being indulgent (I've also quite smoking 2 weeks ago)
    and kept ice on my injured knee.

    I'm grateful for my continued commitment, finding this site, and the support of the others
    on it. I'm also thankful for my apartment and that I paid some of my bills today. I'm grateful
    that I can pay at least some of my rent.

    I'm going to affirm for tomorrow that I won't be as lazy and I'll get back to writing my
    journal and reading before bed.
     
  14. Morning check in: Awake but not up.

    Something happens to me when I sleep that doesn't help me. I'm lonely and depressed,
    and despite last night's affirmations I feel like staying in bed all day.

    My PMO addicted mind is trying to rationalize a relapse; the whole, "men who masturbate
    are less likely to develop prostate cancer..." I know it's about the ejaculation, which sex
    would take care of, but you kind of need a girlfriend first--I don't see that happening anytime
    soon. Impossible to meet anyone being jobless, poor, and socially awkward. So act out through
    PMO? Not yet. (this will be my mantra for now, "Not yet.")

    Yea, so my check in isn't an upbeat positive one. I feel like I'm trapped in a life of paradoxes.
    i.e. can't find a job because I don't have the experience and can't get experience without the
    job, or, I wouldn't be as socially awkward if I just would socialize but I'm too socially awkward
    to socialize. I might find it easier to find a job (and income) if I networked, but I need money to
    network!

    Too much time on my hands....and I can't even run now because of my injured knee.

    Okay, enough self-pity. I'm going back to sleep. Do I want a cigarette? Do I want to jerk-off?
    Of course, just not yet.
     
  15. Oh, my mistake. I'm too old for the group! That's depressing.
    Apologies.
     
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    Usamabhutta18 New Fapstronaut

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