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Alpha m

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Hey people,
I am a guy from Asia and I am not addicted to porn but at sometimes I just get a feeling of watching porn and masturbating to it(generally in 3 days). It's been happening quite often now as I am getting addicted to some taboo porn (such as step mom type). It's been a roller coaster ride for me for about a month as I am masturbating to it on daily basis and I am getting erections at all the time of the day. Whenever I see a hot women I tend to get an erection, rather than going up to her and talking to her, I am sitting at a corner thinking about how I can have sex with her. This has been really weird for me as I have never experienced anything like this before. This is killing my confidence and I am ready to whatever I can to get rid of this feeling(if anyone can introduce me to the challenge that will be really helpful). Masturbating problem doesn't just stop there, recently due to excessive masturbation I have a lot of pimples popping up, my stamina levels are going down and I can feel that I am turning to wrong ways, I can feel it but I still end up on porn websites. I am thinking about porn and how it will look in real life so much that it is just a mess for me. I am ready to do anything in my power.
 
Hi man!
Feel welcome here at the forum. Start with a challenge seems like a good plan.
There are lots of topics and articles to read, lots of youtube vids on nofab, finding motivation and persistence.
I hope you will do well!
 
Alpha m said:
Hey people,
I am a guy from Asia and I am not addicted to porn but at sometimes I just get a feeling of watching porn and masturbating to it(generally in 3 days). It's been happening quite often now as I am getting addicted to some taboo porn (such as step mom type). It's been a roller coaster ride for me for about a month as I am masturbating to it on daily basis and I am getting erections at all the time of the day. Whenever I see a hot women I tend to get an erection, rather than going up to her and talking to her, I am sitting at a corner thinking about how I can have sex with her. This has been really weird for me as I have never experienced anything like this before. This is killing my confidence and I am ready to whatever I can to get rid of this feeling(if anyone can introduce me to the challenge that will be really helpful). Masturbating problem doesn't just stop there, recently due to excessive masturbation I have a lot of pimples popping up, my stamina levels are going down and I can feel that I am turning to wrong ways, I can feel it but I still end up on porn websites. I am thinking about porn and how it will look in real life so much that it is just a mess for me. I am ready to do anything in my power.
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Welcome! I'm glad you're here. If I can help, please let me know.
 
Alpha m said:
I am ready to do anything in my power.
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Hey @Alpha m ,

My ESH is that this is a program of action. Action means work. For me, it is not a program about "not doing something".

There is so much support on this forum, the profiles and the various groups. It works if you work it. I don't offer advise. I offer only my ESH (experience, strength and hope).

Work it? Oh yeah. There's work to be done, that's what's worked for me. Two things I've found necessary.

1. I had to Learn the NoFap Program.

2. Getting involved with the community on here was vital to help my recovery.

Learn the NoFap Program
The resources listed on the "New Users: List of Rebooting Resources" helped me find my way around the reasons behind the program and the terms used.

They are:

You can find this same list on the top of the forum you posted this message on at - the "New to NoFap" forum.

Get Involved with the Community
The community has been my lifeline. I've found journals I love, people who are very supportive and a place where I could get to work helping in a small way others.

I'm nobody important around here. Just a normal user with no magic powers.

But, I can:

  • Read Journals, and comment when I have ESH
  • Find people I admire and stay in touch via their profiles
  • Pick a forum and make sure evvery post gets and answer. I can't answer them all, but that's good - different opinions make for a better group.
  • Post in my journal (I could be better at it - but I do milestone posts at least) To make a journal go to the section listed by age and start one. Keep all your journal posts in one thread. But, for random thoughts, you can create a new thread.
Looking forward to seeing you around on the forums,

- L

PS - Think of pmo like a wolf. Stay near the center of the group with the winners and the wolf has a more difficult time finding you. But, stray near the edges of the community and the wolf can pick you off.
 
One of the ways I got involved with the fellowship was by reading some really great journals.

I've included journals from all age groups, spiritual members, religious members, secular members, male and female. You should find journals that help. If not, look around, there are hundreds of others from which to choose. When I say "it works if you work it", reading journals is part of that work.

Once you open a journal, click "Watch Thread" in the upper right of the page to get alerts when new posts are made. Here are just a few:

@Tomoya Okazaki Journals at: https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/143534/
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@2525 Journals at: https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/150280/
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@Visor Journals at: https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/144228/
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@Dragonnlife Journals at: https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/136148
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@weddingnails Journals at: https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/143418/
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@Struggle Bug Journals at: https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/141911/
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@BigDawg913 Journals at: https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/145872/
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@Sunshadow Journals at: https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/75108/
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@kropo82 Journals at: https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/78164/
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@tet2vd Journals at: https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/144513
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@Protagoras Journals at: https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/109842/
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There are many more, and you can discover them on your own. But, these are great places to start.

This is a work in progress. So, if a journal has changed or is no longer active, look around there are some amazing journals on here.

- L
 
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