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Want gay porn after sex

Discussion in 'Rebooting in a Relationship' started by Dmitriyk1995, Apr 22, 2020.

  1. Dmitriyk1995

    Dmitriyk1995 Fapstronaut

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    So I am struggling with ssa. But I’m living without fapping, which is going good. One of my struggles are that after I have sex with my wife, I want to watch some gay porn. Is it because of my same sex attraction or is it because I’m a porn addict. Need some advise.
    Thanks.
     
  2. LetsGoJimBo

    LetsGoJimBo Fapstronaut

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    Well, do you find Men in your day to day life attractive and wanting to sleep with them? Or is it just through porn?. Unlikely to be same sex attarction if you don't find men attractive unless through porn. May just be a fantasy where the idea is more appealing than the reality. Keep of the porn and I am sure this confusion will subside
     
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  3. Saythatagain

    Saythatagain Fapstronaut

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    I can relate as I used to do similar things. I am a victim of CSA from a guy and that skewed my brain. I'm only able to have connection with my wife and those boxes get checked but then I have the messed up desire of a guy that's i not checked. You have to take time and work through things to break out the extra junk. Once it's removed you can see clearer and know what to do. All of this is generalized but I hope it helps. I'm working on not taking myself so seriously. SA has helped me a lot but mostly from the connections I've gained more than the program itself.
     
  4. marekasap

    marekasap Fapstronaut

    Cut off porn. I had serious problem with gay stuff etc and after 40+ days its fading away. I couldnt fap to normal P, i needed gay P. I couldnt get hard. I developed myself PIED and could not have sex with my GF.

    CUT IT OFF and dont come back. Results will come, but you need to be patient. Im living example and i'm on the beginning of my path.

    good luck!
     

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