Washing 'down there' when very sensitive

I'm a guy, clearly by nickname, but this happened to me today and it was awful... lately i'm feeling very sensitive and just a light touch arouses me but what I do is to wash myself with cold water until I calm myself and feel less sensitive or wash myself slowly...

I guess your situation is way worse but maybe you can try that to see if it helps? Anyway, good luck!

 

Jesus, it must be a nightmare but if running water is the problem maybe using someting else to wash yourself could help? And well abstaining from any sexual behaviour can make us really sensitive now because we used to release any sexual energy whenever we wanted to.

 

Honestly, I don't now either but as long as you keep your guard up you'll be fine sorry I couldn't be of much help.

But anyway maybe with time it will improve, good luck!

 

Post it in women section they probably have more correct answer

 

Some times I’m very sensitive, and I just do my best like you I’m as quick as possible, and I also try to distract my thoughts.

Of course girls and guys are different. Girls seem to have much different types of sensitivity. So hard to say what a good method is. You might consider seeing what your obgyn says if you’re comfortable.

I’m a bit interested in what constitutes as a relapse. I’m aware that there’s a chemical release that happens when orgasm, but we’re also sexual beings. I personally think that after we received from the PMO addiction, having a sexualality isn’t a bad thing. I’m also not sure if I would constitute an accidental orgasm from showering a relapse. As long as you’re honest about it and didn’t rub too long or on purpose.

Such and interesting addiction since we live with the “drug” within us and also cuz we’re sexual beings. For myself I’m learning how to have a healthy sex life versus being an abstinent monk.

I know for guys, if we fantasize, do any touching throughout the day (including rubbing against our pants while walking etc...), or look at pictures or real people in a selfishly sexual way, it counts as edging and it makes our recovery harder. Not sure if this happens with women, but this might be contributing to your increased arousal??

You might want to do some journaling about your sexual ideal and start to slowly figure out what healthy sex looks like to you.

 

Hi! So I know this might sound like a mild overkill but if you really want to avoid O at all cost, you might be alright by applying a numbing spray on the region. They make them for guys that suffer from premature ejaculation but it might be interesting for you to put your sensitivity down a notch while washing. I hope it will get better with time too. So numbing stuff and a cold shower should help to keep you from O.