Watching porn increases my Anger

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by iceman40, May 10, 2017.

  1. iceman40

    iceman40 Fapstronaut

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    Lately I have angry. Angry at everything. Most of the time I'm on the edge: stupid slow drivers, fat/old women in the grocery store, employees to don't follow what we talked about, and etc.

    In watching porn, the girl always says "yes" and the guy enjoys the moment: there is not smell and everything seems perfect. Wow if only life could be like this. So I watch porn and when I meet girls and other people I realize that the reality sucks. The porn girls are no where to be found and if I find them they don't want to deal with me. I have also realized that the prettier the girl is, the more men bend over for her and the crazier she is. That's life and I cannot change life, only myself and my views on life. I have been with super hot girls but after the initial interaction we had nothing in common or she wanted the the world and I could not give her that.

    So here we go again. Let's do a 30 day challenge and see how my anger level will be at the end. No I have to find my counter on this site.
     
  2. r8js

    r8js Fapstronaut

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    yes.............PMO causes anger .and anger is always worst .

    i m sure , lots of member here felt getting often anger everyday , in day to day life .
    it just one of bad thing caused by other bad thing PMO.

    so , i am also here to stop / minimize PMO habit ..........so my anger will vanish as soon as possible.
     
  3. balkanic_falcon

    balkanic_falcon Fapstronaut

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    The first thing i learned from watching porn is that it's totally different from reality, and at least stupid crap called porn have one positive thing - it's showing us how reality is actually gloomy. Nothing in porn industry is real, that's not life, that's just pictures who have forced sex when we watch. Tell yourself that it's not true, and you will go better with rebooting.
     
  4. John84

    John84 Fapstronaut

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    Guys white knighting girls just cause their hot makes me angry too. It ruins it for the rest of guys who get because then they go crazy and you have to deal with entitlement and crazyness from women lol
     
    Last edited: May 12, 2017
  5. AnxietyHangover

    AnxietyHangover Fapstronaut

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    Apart from anger, I have the feeling that everything on this planet sucks, I'm feeling a kind of depression...It sucks, 7 years of continuous porn abuse have huge impact it seems like.
     
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  6. Ghost79

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    I have my doubts about that. I have been porn addict for 17 years and I seen average to good looking women who look like the women you see everyone, moaning and having true pleasure on camera without protection with a stranger they known only an hour or maybe a little more.
    However I never met such women in my life, ever!
     
  7. YngwieWanksteen

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    You don't have to deal with entitlement and craziness with girls. I used to feel that way too. I still do sometimes.

    But you have to change your way of thinking. Stop for a moment and ask do hot girls owe us anything?

    Does the world owe me a hot girl with brains and a great job who will pay my bills?

    I would meditate on those kind of thoughts. The world doesn't owe us anything. It's not a fair world. I still feel the way you guys feel sometimes, but be logical and objective, you'll realize in this situation the only factor you can change is you. And you don't feel like you should have to, I felt the same way, still do sometimes.

    It's called being a victim, it's kinda a sticky, warm, comfortable place. I've been there, but only you can get out of it.
     
  8. don't worry you will feel better in a few months, even if you slip up a few times, you will get better.
     

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