We escape to PMO because it offers us an alternative life

Just like gamers escape to their alternative worlds, we too escape to our alternative world, the world of sexuality, excitement, orgasms, where we can be another persona (either the dominatrix, the sub, the sissy, whatever you want).

So we should make our lives so exciting that we just wouldn't like to escape to another life.

Or we become gaming addicts instead and give up PMO for a "better" alternative reality