We should not blame others for our pmo issues. We need to take responsibility for our own actions.

So if you're attacked in the street you should blame yourself?

 

If you were walking with your head down and cash hanging out of your pocket I might blame someone for being a target. Its not the only blame. there is blame to go a round

 

Walking forward

I think you have worded this in an odd way but I agree with you 100% that ONLY WE can change ourselves now.

Whoever's fault it is that got us to this point is irrelevant, ONLY WE can change ourselves to be the best we can possibly be.

Thanks for the reminder.

 

Maybe this could motivate you to take martial arts? Blaming the person, after it's happened, won't prevent it from happening, but at least this way you can defend yourself. I want to take martial arts for this reason. Just in case. I see blame as control and I'd rather not give someone like that control over my life.

 

Tell em

 

How is being attacked in the street and accurate equivalent to choosing to watch porn? One is a choice, one is not. Unless someone tied you to a chair and forced you to watch, or if someone was introduced to porn heavily as a child, these are not equivalent at all.

 

Ah, I see. That makes more sense.

 

You took responsibility for the mistake which was your point.

You must have planned this from the beginning. This is social engineering at it's finest. (jk)

 

I agree, taking responsibility helps quite a bit. Once you realize that it's YOUR choice to watch porn, when you know what It's done to you, it makes it easier (for me atleast) to take active steps to avoid relapse. No one is making you PMO.

 

been taking responsibility for years I still PMO

 

Do people really blame others for their porn addiction?