Webcams are big urges for me

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Loyal, Mar 31, 2016.

  1. Loyal

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    Like, porn itself doesn't really effect me or enrage my urges. But webcams do, I don't know why. Maybe it has to do with the fact that the people on the webcam are real, and it is happening live. And I just feel more of an erotic connection to that. But damn, the urges of it is overwhelming.

    Any advice?
     
  2. Kyoheix

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    Block all webcam sites, block or delete your skype account if you cam through that.
     
  3. Loyal

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    Even then, I'm a retard enough to enter in the passwords to go in the sites I want.
     
  4. Kyoheix

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    Get a random password and use services like futureme.org to send them to the future. Like 10 months from now.
    If you go through the trouble to get a new account, well, nothing can stop you but having locked accounts can buy you time to rethink what you're doing and hopefully stop.
     
  5. kk76

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    I relate to the thing about it being real. Perhaps that was the appeal especially asking for what I wanted and then it happening.

    It needs to go. It may seem impossible but it isn't
     
  6. immanuel.iitd

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    Webcams, chat rooms and cyber sex is is more addictive than even hardcore porn. As you told the people are real So it is like we are acting or making porn. The dopamine rush to the brain is higher in cyber sex than hardcore porn.
    I also spent hours in front of chat room for cyber sex. As I remember, one day I sat in front of webcam from afternoon 2 Pm to next day early morning 4 am. It is very difficult to leave from that. Even now my brain attacked by the images of the people I have met on the chat room. Then i blocked by some software. The good thing is Once I block even I cannot reopen because I am using office computer and laptop and the rebooting of computer is very difficult.

    Even now my brain is telling you are fool, there are many girls are waiting for you on chat room , go and grab them. enjoy the life. But i am staying away from them
     
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  7. Kristen

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    same here, I wouldn't be surprised if we had cybersex together at one point..lol...Iv done it with so many men..lol...I just try to avoid chat sites, and don't give guys my email or Skype haha
     
  8. Kristen

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    yeah its the same for me, for some reason webcam feels a lot more exciting then even hardcore porn..lol, I think its because I am really having a physical effect on someone who I real, and seeing what I can do to them is exciting, whereas in porn, your watching the reaction of someone to someone else..lol.....a real person is reacting to you!, I think that's the big thing for me..lol.....the end result is super tempting, I keep thinking about it! but I must fight it! I don't want to be that kind of person anymore! lol, you keep fighting it too!
     
  9. I've never actually tried cyber sex. I don't know why, kinda just skipped over me. I don't even have a cam. But now I kinda want to. I gotta say I find this whole tread kind of triggering...
     
  10. kk76

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    It's where I lost most of my time doing this.

    The pick me up was the person being online, the tab illuminating or flashing that they had responded to what I wrote, oh my god that is where the hit lay and reading what they wrote.

    And cam sites that was toxic too.

    Part of me misses it but I am glad I am away from that.

    And the hurt and upset when a person disconnected...
     
  11. kk76

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    It's not worth it. It will just drag you down
     
  12. immanuel.iitd

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    I relapse most of the time in webcam sites. than hardcore porn. I dont have idea what it is that. So much addictive. high dopamine rush.I also agree with you. Some one real and they do whatever we want. So we must stay away from the chat sites.
     
  13. immanuel.iitd

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    the dopamine rush is very high than hardcore porn
     
  14. kk76

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    That explains so much
     
  15. Kristen

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    Dont even start. Doing that will give u a whole new thing u have to fight against and try to resist. Honestly the cost is so high when u do cybersex. In a way cyber sex made me feel used and i felt depressed after..idk about anyone else....but yes it was hot but at the same time depressing...someone just used u...i think that most people would like a real relationship and being a girl thats what i kind of hope to acheive by being on cam, maybe someone will like me enough to be more to them but it never happens. I am just used and they leave. forever.lol....
     
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  16. The only solution is to remove the cause of the problem, I know easier said than done. Everything comes down to a sheer willpower to get stronger. Cancel or suspend your accounts for a while until you get under control and then keep reminding yourself why you did it.
     
  17. dragonaire

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    Throw away the damn cam, put it on the ground and SMAAASH IT with ur feet

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    And then replace ur DNS address with this ones

    198.153.192.50
    198.153.194.50

    those are anti-porn dns servers from Norton

    And after it...

    KEEP SMASHING THE DAAAAMN CAM!!!!!


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    DAMMIT!
     
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  18. Kristen

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    LOL your awesome, I literally smashed 2 laptops to try and stop porn
     
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  19. Kristen

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    ya before when I first started cyber sex, I realized how bad things are becoming so I took my laptop and took a hamer and smashed it to pieces and ripped it apart....6 months later bought a new lap top
    got involed in porn and cyber sex again so smashed that one too haha
     
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  20. Jack_Doff

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    Webcam (watching not performing) is my drug of choice. So many pretty women who do what I ask if I tip enough. I am an addict.
     

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