Weird Thoughts about Sex

Lately, my urges have been very psychological. I watched this Ted Talk video on porn (link down below) and it's educational and helpful. However, one part in the video talks about real sex (at the 3:08 minute mark). Real sexual interactions includes: courtship, touching, being touched, smells, pheromones, emotional connection, interaction with a person. I thought to myself, "that sounds a little boring though". Then, I think to myself; is that the addict talking? Or am I really just a guy that genuinely wants raunchy or "pornified" sex too? I can simply rule these thoughts as triggers or urges but it really has me thinking, Who am I? A good guy but also just genuinely perverted? Or am I just overthinking? Thanks for reading.

Ted Talk video on Porn