First off I appreciate all of you who have talked to me about this. Your helping me had a helped me understand. An update: we are still together. So far so good it’s only been 8 months he hasn’t seen any escorts etc. I finally got the truth..or I think..who knows I do have a question. Anyone who has seen escorts, have you ever encountered a time where you didn’t want sex but something else from them? He states he had sex with 3 of them and when I asked why those three and why he didn’t just say he wanted something else he said “you don’t get it. I had to” had to? also, he stated “I didn’t want that..that’s not what I wanted” That he saw them for strip teases and hand jobs after that and nothing else...that it was strictly that... never saw for more than 15 min he swears on that and the money I saw come out of his accounts when he went coincided with that... Has anyone ever just stopped doing that? Didn’t want sex but something specific? He gave me “3” as an answer but can’t tell me why he chose those “3” for sex. He said it wasn’t an attraction thing or anything like that... thank you all.