Well... I did it! PIED - beaten. It's HARD and STRONG.

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  1. Dizz12

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    I remember like it was yesterday 8 months ago when I was struggling to get answers why my penis doesn't work anymore. Even before researching into PIED I somehow new that porn was the problem.

    After watching tons of videos and reading tens of articles (just like all of you did) I decided to quit porn. I went cold turkey on the 14th of February 2020 after what had to be an amazing St. Valentine's sex with a big titted girl was simply ruined by my flaccid tool.

    I stayed 100% away from porn for 27 days. I know that there are magic numbers here in the community of how many days you should stay porn free in order to recover, like 30 days, 60 days, 180 days. On the 28th day I wanked to porn... once. Then stayed away for another 2 weeks. And then another 1 or 2 or 3 weeks. I was wanking to porn from time to time. But it was never the daily habit I had before... because I didn't need it anymore. The addiction was broken.. it became a recreational thing to me.

    During these 27 days I went through a flatline when I felt like a pear-shaped beta male with a micro penis. Then I felt pride for finally, first time in my life staying away from porn. Then I almost became a sex predator, I was so horny that I almost screamed. Then I started feeling life in my penis again. Slowly I was recovering.

    When I relapsed on my 28th day, I was holding a strong, thick, warmer than before cock in my hand. That dick was different from what it was a month ago. And yes, don't be scared, your sperm is yellow after you don't ejaculate for a long time.

    I have never strictly abstained from porn after that. I had enough motivation not to indulge in daily wanking sessions anymore. I knew it works. I was happy it works. I didn't want to lose it again.

    I will jump forward by saying that now I have 2 women who I regularly impale. I never had problems with PIED after that. I have sex with them every other day and never had problems again. I take my trousers off and put it straight into them. No more pussy eating to pray it gets hard. No more fake foreplay to "give it time and the chance to get hard". Pants off - dick in pussy.

    That's the short story not to bore you. I am 32 years old. For the last 4-6 years I had problems getting hard.

    Some of my remarks:

    Porn is a problem, porn is THE problem.

    There is no magic number of how many days you should stay away. Just brake the habit. Think of it as alcoholism. The problem was that you drank everyday. A beer once in 10 days wont do you any harm. A beer everyday - will. Don't be scared if you relapsed, just go back to not doing it for another 10 days. It will work, I promise you.

    Flat line exist, it's nasty. So nasty. But the good thing is, it's temporary.

    After you recover you will last longer in bed. I swear to God, I can fuck for an hour straight if I want to now. Honestly.

    When you become mega horny during your abstinence don't batch-write to random women and your co-workers proposing them sex, it's your brain simply malfunctioning, you will regret it after, like i do : )

    After 6 months I had no more PIED at all.

    Please feel free to address any questions I will gladly answer them and guide you through this difficult but rewarding endeavour.
     
  2. Happy for you! I experienced a pretty similar story with curing my PIED, having successful sex and then ending up relapsing again ffs! Although the many times I had sex with my girl at the time has probably helped rewire my brain. It was usually every other day and sometimes a few times a day for a couple of months. I had to move on from her though and after a couple of weeks without sex I relapsed, had like 3 wanks to porn then 3 days after, 2 more! I was pretty annoyed at myself because I wanted to be sure my dick would work with the next girl I date. However now I'm back on track feeling stronger than ever on day 15 no PMO and my morning wood has returned quick af! Judging by my story do you reckon I'll have any problems next time? I've actually been able to have sex just a couple of days after a relapse before but that girl knew about my addiction and therefore there was no pressure.
     
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  3. Dizz12

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    Hi mate!

    Ok, here is what I stronlgy strongly believe:

    1. You alone can already tell there is a lot of psychology going on with the erectile function of men, right? If you feel anxiety it somehow works worse, does it? Personally I think that the leaders of NoFap make a huge mistake when they promote that mantra that relapsing is a deadly sin that takes you to square one. Does it though? No it doesn't. A habit - does. I understand why they do that, they might think that the fear of losing the progress will keep everyone away from doing it.

    What I think is, that fear, that annoyance you described you felt when you wanked will cause more problems than the fact that you relapsed. The next time you are with a girl, instead of enjoying that female you might end up thinking that you didn't complete your 60 days PMO and that's why your dick won't work. No it WILL! Don't think about your relapse. Wanked? 10 days no porn! That's all. Less things you have to stress about, harder your penis will be. As if you don't have enough things to be paranoid about already : ) I am a living proof of my theory. If you take 5 steps forward then 1 step backwards you are 4 steps ahead anyways.

    2. Do I think you will perform well with your next girl? I think you absolutely will. If it worked once - it means it works. I had the same issue with getting hard with a certain female only first with whom I've built trust. Which made me understand - it's all psychological.

    If you want to become more confident just tell your story to the girls you're heading to bed with. Women ADORE success stories, of any kind. Just don't tell her you've been a sad lonely wanker with no life. Tell her that a certain point in your life you wanted to gain FULL control on your life. Including small addictions people don't even consider. And how you didn't want to be a part of the artificial life 21st century is offering. Tell her about the scientific research you did, and how strong you feel now. And that you feel so sorry about the guys who PMO and think it's cool.

    If letting them now helps - do it. Just wrap it in an attractive success story : ) because it definitely is.

    You won't have to do it all the time, once you get hard the next time you'll now it 100% works : ). And the anxiety will be gone.
     
  4. 100% agree! There's no reason after my previous experiences to believe my dick won't work, yet I've always battled with the anxiety of it. We must have confidence in ourselves and let those negative thoughts pass through our heads without pondering on them. Thank you for your response man, I'm feeling pretty good about this current streak already and you have reassured me that I can give that next special girl what she deserves. :)
     
  5. Dizz12

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    You are already healed. The current streak is just to cement the progress.
     
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  6. Rishabh king

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    Has your dick sized improved from the days when you were doing it daily mine looks small but don’t why?
     
  7. While I agree. I also disagree. PIED is definitely a physical thing too. If you're on a flatline or if you're wanking every day with a death grip and you meet a girl you want to perform with; Your dick won't work.

    Plain and simple. You can't just use "mind over matter" in this case. There is a physical issue too which you simply have to recover from through abstinence.
     
  8. I’m so groovy

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    The 1hr part is true lol
     
  9. Belching_Booch

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    That's great man. I've been an addict for about ten years now, but the last two have been especially bad. Fell into some real depraved shit. Anyway I don't really have so much of a problem getting hard, it's more of a problem KEEPING said erection. I need constant stimulation to stay hard, and I'm pretty sure my T levels are lower than normal. I lift almost daily now and been fapping a lot less but haven't stopped completely. I'm determined to at least make it 60 days with no pmo and hopefully it'll fix the issue. Been also taking maca root, L Arginine, and L Citrulline.
     
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  10. Nowhere else on the internet will you find straight guys writing this much about their own dick.
     
  11. thikk

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    Nice post. I'm on day 60 hardmode. The streak has been very honest, only issues have been nsfw thoughts about women I know, and maybe lingered for a second on a few occasions where I stumbled upon a sexualized post - both cases I can easily brush aside any urges. My question concerns pied, when do you think I should start rewiring or trying it on with women? I got a bit hesitant because many people say it takes longer to heal, but all these people rarely do a true hardmode.
     
  12. Tigerking

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    Hey please answer this if u see it. So basically I relapsed after 72 days cuz when I was sleeping I cummed so much after dreaming then I woke up cleaned my cup then was going back to sleep so I thought I'd fap since I didn't do it for 72 days so I did it and slept but it was not enjoyable since I cummed while sleeping then masterbauted so today I woke up and did it again with a video to enjoy the complete moment and go back to nofap handmade but when I was fapping my phones battery finished so I cummed without any video and I couldn't enjoy it completely to go back to disciplining myself to go to hard so my question is should I fap tomorrow morning with porn and go back to hardmode after enjoying myself completely or just fight my urges and dont do it
     
  13. You might be asking someone else, but I think that decision is completely up to you.

    Remember, YOU are the one living your life. You have to live with the decisions you make. Nobody will hold your hand through adulthood.
     
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  14. Sorry if this sounded blunt or rude. I personally have not made 72 days, so congrats :) ... but to me it sounds like you are asking "Should I have one cigarette? Tomorrow I will throw the pack away".
     
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  15. Mr doctor

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    Brother i have a question my dick started to get thinner after if i cure ed then there will be great blood flow so my question is that can my fick will get better like it will be little thick and fine?
     
  16. Mr doctor

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    brother are your erections hard as compare to your harder ercetions
     
  17. Yall need to focus on your lives getting better not your fick...

    Lool
     
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  18. domasfernandez

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    Bro have you noticed any improvements so far? With L arginine or citrulline?
     
  19. “Lmao pants off - dick in pussy” I wish I could do that right now, I’ve been flatlining for 1 whole year. Imagine a shriveled up dick for one whole year. Pretty depressing.
     
  20. Deebo34

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    Literally just quit porn and excessive masturbation 5 days ago after my dick went dead a few hours after fapping and I told myself that I would stop watching porn. I think I'm in a flatline but have had vivid sex dreams in the past 3 days with weak erections and would go away as soon as I woke up. I dont get no morning wood or nothing throughout the day. I may get a little arousal but my erection is very weak
     

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