wet dreams affecting my mood

Discussion in 'Abstinence, Retention, and Sexual Transmutation' started by ok304, Jan 5, 2021.

  1. ok304

    ok304 Fapstronaut

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    almost 1 month NoFap, 2 weeks without porn.
    yesterday i had a wet dream. today i had another (today i didnt even remember dreaming about it).
    i dont think of sex at all when im awake.
    no libido, no urge for the first time in all of my attempts.
    waking up from wet dream makes me upset and i have sore muscles.
    anyone with similar experience can give me tips?
     
  2. Virginpaul

    Virginpaul Fapstronaut

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    I'm having the same issues and it's becoming more often. What have you tried doing? Cold showers? I don't want to go from masturbating just to be having wet dreams all the time, I even had a daytime emission so I need some help.
     
  3. Lumkalak

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    I wouldn't worry about the wet dreams.

    Consensus is they are not relapsing. Wet dreams don't rewire and corrupt your brainpaths and neurolocigal system as watching P and wanking does.

    These are some of my thoughts, based on common sense. So take them with a grain of salt...

    IMO, wet dreams are completely normal, and part of our natural libido. There's a good biological and psychological reasons why we have sexual "drive". For example, watch the youtube video "your mind on porn" where they do research on rats and block their dopamine system. The rats become so passive that they were almost under a lethal danger.

    Wet dreams are the "symptom" of you being a healthy human being with a helthy libido. The problem is that we are so week that we can't control this energy/libido due to some poor life control and choices... And we und up watching P and wanking. That's the abnormal part!

    Being a man-zombie without any libido or desire is not normal IMO. The key is to be a master over those urges.

    Some critics say that abstaining from the masturbation and SR cause prostate cancer. Personally I don't believe this, but I also believe that wet dreams are nature's own, safe and normal, way of getting rid of any "excess ejaculation" that could possibly cause some issues.
    So wanking IS useless...

    You can't control your dreams and subconscious, they're beyond your total control. Of course you can stimulate your subconscious with some life-affirming influences, but you will never be fully in control.

    If you have a wet dream and ejaculate, just think your body and subconscious chose to do so for some reason. As it chooses to keep your heart beating, chooses to make you sweat when you exrecise etc.

    Just move on. You didn't damage anything, nor did lose any "vitality". Just throw your boxers into the washing machine, that's it IMO...
     
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  4. Lumkalak

    Lumkalak Fapstronaut

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    Stay completely away from the PMO and utilize SR if you want to WHILE AWAKE. That's already freaking difficult. Don't worry about the things you can't control.

    BTW, many men with very severe PMO problems don't even "suffer" from the wet dreams. They have nothing in the tank, so to speak... And the normal libido is so low.
     
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  5. ok304

    ok304 Fapstronaut

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    update: i havent had wet dream since. i did change some things that may affect it.

    For example ive read that foods that cause upset stomach could put pressure on your prostate and make you release fluids during night. I dont know how legit claims like these are but i dont mind eating certain foods earlier in the day than late so..

    also on a wet dream i almost had, i was able to control and stop it and woke up from it.

    my best advice is dont stress over it. if it starts happening consistently or daily for long period then id be concerned, othersise its probably your body's response from reguraly ejaculating to nofap.
    thanks for your replies
     

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