Wet dreams interruption

Discussion in 'Abstinence, Retention, and Sexual Transmutation' started by Abkar, May 9, 2020.

  1. Abkar

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    Hi everyone ,
    I wish to post on this platform to tell my story about my current nofaf journey .
    I started nofaf in hardway mode on 27th march 2020 (43 days back). My journey was quite successful as a I took the challenge with total determination . I have noticed serious improvement in my life both physically, mentally and sexually . And I hope to see more of it.
    My major problem which I don't use to be happy with is WET DREAMS that is coming my way within this period. I had about 3 wet dreams, the first one is at around 23rd day of my reboot , another one happen around my 32 day while yesterday I also had it.
    I don't actually know what is causing it since I use to avoid all possible things that may trigger my sexual urge before going to bed.
    I wish someone to help tell me the effect , consequences of this wet dreams to my rebooting journey and what could be done to stop it.
    Thanks
     
  2. SaveTheSeedofLife

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    Dude your 32, its normal. They teach this in school. IF you do not masturbate ( porn or no porn ) you are going to ejaculate while you sleep. The body needs to release old semen. You make too much sperm per day and it has to go somewhere bro. It doesn't pile up in your balls for hundreds of years until you decide when you want to release them. Every body is different, some guys do not have them and some have them every other day, some like me have them couple times a month. There is no way of stopping it. If you heard of guys that this something to stop it or that never had one is because they are lying or they are genetically made not to have them. You my friend are designed to have them so embrace it.
     
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  3. Abkar

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    Thanks for the reply, I really appreciate.
     
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  4. NeedSomeHelp2

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    Mostly true, but one minor imput. You don't necesarry have to ejaculate in your sleep. Some of us claim to have it leaving during bathroom breaks. Also if I recall correctly the body does tear down unused sperm and reuses it for something else.

    Sorry for your negative experience! Maybe consider sleeping in tight underwear. And reduce screentime before sleep if you havent eliminated it all by now. Maybe change your bedtime and see if that makes difference. Maybe if you are in a different sleep cycle it doesnt happen. Try to find the connection. Do you wake up when it happens?
    Also, maybe practice lucid dreaming, and avoiding hot situations in your dreams? The mind is a powerful tool, you can do a bunch of things with it.
     
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  5. SaveTheSeedofLife

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    True, it has happened to me where I go to the bathroom and right after I pee or do a number 2, I have a semen leakage of the size of a teaspoon. Yes, the body does tears it down and reuses the nutrients. It depends on the body, how backed up you are. I wouldn't stress it. Just let it be. Focus more in not touching yourself and avoiding masturbation which is the true problem. So you have a wet dream- so what?, it is once vs jacking off voluntary with no purpose just wasting your seed then in couple hours you will feel the same as before you jacked off. Its a waste of time. At least, with wet dreams you are not in control when your asleep. I would be careful with lucid dreaming that requires a lot of practice and dedication. Lucid dreaming can be addictive so might try to solve one problem but then create another. In my case, sometimes I wake up during a wet dream ( I find myself in the middle of ejaculating my semen ), wake up right after I ejaculated or I just wake up in the morning to realize later on I had a wet dream due to my bed and underwear is covered in my semen. However, I also feel good and energized and I feel a relief and that makes up for the inconvenience of creamin' in your undies or sheets. Some guys say they feel bad, no energy or hornier. It depends how your treating your body, if your eating right, sleeping enough and for how long you been retaining semen. I found the longer you have been retaining ( months ) the feeling improves when you have a wet dream. Being honest, I think its wonderful guys can retain their semen and truly give it to someone when it is necessary either to procreate or for enjoyment especially if that person can enjoy the seed since we been retaining it for special purpose. It is possible to have sex without ejaculating as well and enjoy the edging of it and still continue to retain semen. You are going to precum a lot though, lol, but your swimmers will be retained. But great opinion.
     
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  6. matt2k12

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    read this from another post here the other day:

     
  7. SaveTheSeedofLife

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    I believe him, some guys are designed genetically not to have wet dreams. Consider it a blessing or a curse. For me, it will be a curse since I enjoy having them. The rest that he does is good as well. Just remember that testosterone drops as we age so got to keep exercising and eating good, take vitamins as well. You will notice when your Test drops when your having less boners in the mornings or sex drive is non existent.
     
  8. frunkysoul

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    How to practice Luicid Dreaming?
     
  9. NeedSomeHelp2

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    I'm not an expert especially since I only dream when I don't sleep well. (Technically I only not forget my dreams when I don't sleep well)
    But there are a bunch of materials about the topic over the internet.
    All I know is, that I did in fact lucid dream a couple times. As a kid, I had a returning nightmare that I couldn't avoid. So when I realised it is a nightmare, I just accepted the fact , and made my monster kill me faster. So I woke up less terrified, and faster.
    As an adult/teen I usually flied punched out walls, and had sex/masturbated in my lucid dreams. So BE PREPARED, you are still sleeping you are not fully conscious make sure you can force your dreams to avoid hot situations, not to generate one.

    I've never did any training to achieve lucid dreams, but my uncle tolld me about a trick. He said, you have to play along real life to check if you are dreaming. Like every time you go to the restroom, you punch yourself to see if you are dreaming. Or count your fingers, or something. So there is a high chance, you will do the same thing in your dreams aswell.
    I cannot warn you enough though. DO NOT USE LUCID DREAMING to generate a wet dream. Use turnoff mantras when you check if you are dreaming.
    If you do in fact generate a hot dream, you may not have an orgasm and wake up horny, and relapse.
    Plus if you do orgasm, you will have sticky sheets.
    A better life >>>>> 0,5 seconds of pleasure. Always remember that.
     
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  10. frunkysoul

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    I get you bro. Thanks a lot for the useful infos.
     

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