What about no Porn but getting climax without cumming

Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by joey0411, Mar 24, 2017.

  1. joey0411

    joey0411 Fapstronaut

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    As I mentioned before I think I also suffer from the negative effects of longlasting porn overdose (brainfog, social anxiety, general bad concentration..)

    In addition to the masturbating w/o porn to fleshlight, I would like to know your opinion on this:
    Precondition: no porn whatsoever!
    Do you think an alternative way of curing would be to allow masturbation with the fleshlight (without thinking of pictures/images etc. in my mind) once in a week just reaching climax, but not cumming?
    Im not talking of edging! I mean that I actually have the climax but no cum comes out.
    That way I would not have watched porn and still keep my cum.

    Let me know what you think about it.
     
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  2. NF SINCE BIRTH

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    I am pretty sure that this would count as edging. Without porn is off course better than with but I think MOing will affect the same neural pathways in your brain as PMOing would do, just not as intense. The best way to go about it is in my opinion to go hard mode. I would also advise you to check out the FAQ section on yourbrainonporn.com
     
  3. Monster Carrot

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    How is that even possible?
     
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  4. Dr.NoFap

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    Dude....don't sugar coat anything. Throw away the Fleshlight and quit PMO all together.
     
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  5. TetsuoAkira

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    Play with fire, you'll get burnt....

    I lasted 23 days, the longest in 3.5 years of trying to quit this shit, and regret any kind of stimulation, temptation, with or without porn or a substitute

    The goal should be to avoid all of it, and focus on human reaction and social relationships instead

    You still get a dopamine release when you M, even without O
     
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  6. joey0411

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    What Im curious about is, when you actually reach climax without cumming, wouldnt this make you less horny?
    So the risk should probaably not as high as one thinks.
    But this is theory. And since Im not going to train this technique, I guess I will have to go the hard way too.
     
  7. Aiyoshi

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    Are you talking about reaching a orgasm without ejaculation?
    That still counts as an orgasm.
    From personal experience and research, this stuff leaves us with a lot of energy remaining and it's easy to keep wanting more and more.

    Overall, such thing is best done with a wife. If you're single, it's better to learn how to live in abstinence.
     
  8. TetsuoAkira

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    No, it doesn't.

    Quit making excuses and presenting your discussion as "theory".

    You're either in or your out!
     
  9. That's just a question coming from the addict in you. Edging is just another negative, addictive habit. Don't do it.
     
  10. Mitch22

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    I like the answer of Aiyoshi. I have tried for years to do what you describe. But its a fine line and I see that happened what others are describing here. I stayed addicted and I got over the fine line almost everytime. Practice it in a sensitive good relationship. For me I will go hard mode.
     

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