Hey, first of all I am not sure if this is the right part of the forum to post my problem, since Loneliness is none of my concerns but rather Virginity itself and for some reason even writing about this makes me feel very uncomfortable. I am a 19 yo virgin. For some reason though this just recently started bugging me (about a year ago). Just to get an idea of my personality, I am a quite talkative person who loves to flirt with girls and usually has no problem finding topics or speaking to them(I am not trying to show-off, its just better to understand my problem). But this is also my biggest issue of concern. For as far as I can recall it 19 years I didnt really feel the need for sexual interaction with other people. (I am not gay, I think, since I dont feel anything looking at men or speaking to them) I really love speaking, bantering and flirting with girls but I dont feel any urge to have sex with them after doing so and for some reason a man is supposed to feel like this in todays society. Furthermore I am not sure about this being a problem of sexuality (A-sexuality or others) or just because of addictive porn-abuse behavior in the past or else just me overrating the importance of virginity and therefore pressure related issues. But A-sexuality woulndt really make sense since I get a boner when cuddling with woman. I am a man who thinks very much and since I didnt find any solution yet for my problem, it got stuck in my head for about a year now and had a negative impact on my school-related issues as well as my none existent love life because I as soon as I feel like a girl is interested in having sex with me usually crawl back into my shell. There are only a few other people I am really interested in having relationships with either but they are usually 2-3 years younger than me and live a bit far away and I am very keen on having one, but am somehow afraid of the intercorrelating part of it. Having recently discovered nofap I decided to give it a try and even though my life in general improved (more active and health-oriented) my drive for sex isnt or only slightly expressing itself. Will this be solved by the rebooting program?, because I really want to have sex, I am just not interested in it for some reason. Could this be porn related? How does one feel when really wanting to have sex with someone else? For as long as I can recall it when I found someone really attractive I would start masturbating over them without really trying to "maximize" the relationship, might this be the key issue? And is porn induced A-sexuality reversable? Additionally I f.e really enjoy looking at nice asses but I am not sure the feeling I get when looking at them is the same than wanting to have sex with them. Lastly I want to thank your community as a whole for your support and you wont believe what a relief I feel finally being able to express myself, since talking about this with a parent or friend is a bit weird (at least for me) Dearest Regards.