What are the effects of O with a girl during reboot?

Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by Sterkte, Aug 19, 2019.

  1. Sterkte

    Sterkte Fapstronaut

    So I've been on NoFap for a long while now, had some great streaks, and porn watching sessions are now very few and far between. I just started dating a girl, and while we're waiting to have sex, she's super horny and wants to do other stuff (i.e. oral). Does anyone have experience with starting a relationship while doing NoFap...what can I expect in terms of side effects such as brain fog, energy levels, focus and everything like that, if I'm reaching orgasm, but only from my girlfriend? I think the term "superpowers" is a little over the top, but I've definitely experienced many benefits from NoFap (although that's mainly through kicking the shameful habit of daily porn use).
    Any advice, comments or concerns would be helpful!
     
  2. Johansson.Water

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  3. hardowner

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    If I find a gf that wants to have sex with me, I won't think about the hard mode.
     
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  4. julius434

    julius434 Fapstronaut

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    the first o the dick is down...and kissin on lips didnt grew up again i make my gf kissin my body and for 10 second my dicm is hard again..so if ylur dick is goin down make her kissin you on the body because the receptor of sentimens are tk high sorry my english but if u know what i mean...i
     
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  5. The O is much better with a significant other. You don't get that guilty feeling and disgusted of yourself after. You get a different dopamine rush it seems. No brain fog, but you might be a bit tired after depending on the intensity and length of the action undergone.
     
  6. Johansson.Water

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    "what can I expect in terms of side effects such as brain fog, energy levels, focus and everything like that, if I'm reaching orgasm, but only from my girlfriend?"

    It depends on how hot she is.
     
  8. TroyMcclure

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    I asked exactly the same question to myself yesterday and I concluded even ejaculating with my gf but avoiding porn and fap I'll reduce ejaculations around 85% that is significant in terms of energy, laser focus etc... So calculate your % after removing porn and masturbation from your life. All the best and enjoy sex in a natural way
     
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  9. Baus

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    You are totally right about this, this has happen to me
     
  10. julius434

    julius434 Fapstronaut

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    today the first time after 8-9 months i start havin hard erection and after first ejaculation.. im takin medicine.. my andrologue said its a thing that passed its not a problem because all me analysis was ok so i dont suffer from ed organically im takin arginine tribulus terrestris and ginseng in 3 thing in one pill for 30 days..i hope still havin erection like this durin sex and after i finished the pill..sorry men mh english its been a long time i didnt talk in this language.
     
  11. 12&6

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    Dating during a reboot can be touchy. No pun. When I drained it felt like I lost 20lbs. No joke. She was amazed and I was to. Very intense O. Becareful...ride the lightning but fight the possible affects. If your aware of your triggers though it shouldnt be an obstacle to your. I will however be blunt- when your soldier/sailor is reporting for duty youll only last a few rounds in the ring before you blow. Waking up w/ a raging full mast is a sign your bodys changing and getting on coarse. At least for me it was but then I felt it was important to get back to basics. Treat your makeout/ sexy sessions as a time to explore. Women love that as is. Let your lips do some work prior all over. I love women ingeneral but celebrate your partners every inch and if your partner does in turn- let them know your loaded because some may not like a loaded **** - in the mouth or face-...in the end communicate your sensitive and realize this,any partner who understands this is a keeper and itll only make them more hungry for the main coarse. Thatll give you both plenty of training time:) As for me- I really have to slow my roll. I go monk really. I might as well be monestary mode like JCVD(not that old I promise)...but meditation and vitamins ,diet helps me fight the temptations. Go slow,do not go fast! Your re training. Its important. If you can align your drive,urges and focus for your partner you have reached the top in my mind. Keep focused ,and keep on keeping on brother!
     
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  12. julius434

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    yesterday i do sex with pills today without pills was the same im very depressed..after the first ejaculation i didnt have the ability to have another erection.
     
  13. 12&6

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    There can be a flood of emotions. Ive experienced that. An intense passion. To me however it just signaled how empty my emotional tank was so to speak. Plus theres been a massive amount of loss in the past 10 plus years of my life that corresponded w/ a lot of this.My emotions desired a deep connection. As far as the meds go,Id only try those in the begining. Think of it like jump starting a car. You dont want to mentally rely on them either. Thats very real. In the overall end,dont touch it, grab it, hit it or even think about doing those to it and your master and commander will do whats natraul- rise to the occasion.
     

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