WHAT ARE THE TOP THINGS THAT CAUSE YOU TO FALL?

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  1. timcia

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    Plan: Resist negative thoughts, assist positive thoughts. Positive thoughts are not going to stay, they need to be assisted. Negative thoughts are not going to leave they need to be resisted.
    I am starting this thread so that any of us can share what causes a fall. Then we can all band together with a bunch of solutions and things to try.
    My top reasons for falling are money, frustration and when I see something I should not see.
    What are your top ones?
     
  2. XandeXIV

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    I've talked about this a lot lately but for me it is novelty. A new video. A new idea. This is what triggers the part of my brain that doesn't want to escape PMO. The voice that says "it's not fair that you've stopped PMO when this new thing is here for us to enjoy" activates in response to such things.
     
  3. Lost Hope

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    Addiction, loneliness, frustration.
     
  4. timcia

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    We always have to give up something great. Our flesh says that ___ is great. The Bible says that having Jesus' fullness of joy in us for the whole month is great. I am really pushing my "The Bible says be filled with the Holy Spirit"
    articles because I want people to experience a few days, or weeks or months of something spectacular, powerful, and joyful.
    I have zero interest in giving up the purpose and joy that I now have. But... just two days ago I started slipping, and in that condition, I didn't care about the destruction P brings. I didn't remember that I would be lowering my joy for the month.
    That is why we work so hard to gain skills for quitting. I made it through that rotten day and the next day remembered what I really what and how great it really is.
     
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    Lonliness, frustration, depression, being idle
     
  6. timcia

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    There is a church saying: Jesus is all I need. For most people, it is partially true at best.
    But for people who fight to be filled with the Spirit and who fight to find their purpose. The saying becomes completely true.
    Pray to be filled with the Spirit to be empowered to help someone else's loneliness problem.
    God has something great for you (and everyone else) to do.
     
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    How can i do that?

    "Having first cast the beam out of your own eye, you can the better see to cast the mote out of your brother's eye"

    True, but i don t know my purpose yet. I pray to find mine, i don t know what to do more than that.
     
  8. timcia

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    I will be writing an article in about 1 week and I will address every single issue that anyone says causes them to fall. They will not be miracle cures, but... like I always do, I will try to come up with a bunch of stuff to pray about and work on.
     
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  9. I think right now my two triggers are stress from work (mostly caused by procrastination) and the appearance of my wife (get depressed and feel bad for myself). Neither are good reasons, but there they are. With work, I'm trying to stop procrastinating and be productive--God gave me a vocation, and I need to lean into it. With my wife, I need to learn to love and appreciate her--my addict brain wants "better," but she is what I need.
     
  10. Oh, a third big trigger is all the attractive women at church. I'd have to say those three are my biggest triggers.

    I am hoping that a reboot will help to fix all three of these issues: increase my ability to focus and concentrate on my work, be less affected when seeing other attractive women, and grow in my desire for my wife.

    Thanks for your posts, @timcia .
     
  11. timcia

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    90% of us need to pray 3 times a day: Father, take away this spirit of lust and help me to love my wife. That is what I strive to do.
     
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  12. timcia

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    My post today on thinking is timely for this. It is an issue what we think about. But it may be an even bigger issue that we are not thinking about what we should be thinking about.
    Thanks for the great comment. Tomorrow I will write about whether Christians miss out on pleasure or not.
     
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