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What are you thinking about when with a girl?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by gainsrs, Jul 14, 2015.

  1. gainsrs

    gainsrs Fapstronaut

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    During intercourse or anything else with a women, what thoughts are going through you're head? Fantasizing about anything? Or just focusing on the girl with no recurring porn thoughts?
     
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  2. Whenever I'm intimate with a girl, porn doesn't even cross my mind. I'm completely focused on the woman (they call me Casanova). Joke ......

    Seriously, though. When I'm making love to a woman or messing around with one sexually, I'm completely in the zone, usually even more than the woman. I'm a guy who is very in touch with his own energy and his emotions, which makes me someone who is able to feel other peoples emotions as well. I totally know what's going through a woman's mind when I'm making love to her and I accommodate her energetically. I'm aware of her breathing, if she's too hot etc... It's not something I try to do, it's just automatic. Maybe it's something I learned along the way, without realising it. I'm just aware that every woman is different and likes different things. No two sexual experiences with a woman are the same.

    What I am actually thinking about in a more intricate way when with a woman intimately is how she smells. I love the way women smell and I love the heat that comes from their body. I also like the smell of their hair and just their natural scent in general. I'm not interested in her perfume. I like the natural odour of a woman. These are things that we were actually supposed to enjoy as men. Every woman has a different scent.

    The only thing I am fantasising about when making love to a woman is her and her body and how much I am enjoying the moment, how much I want to please her. I love watching their facial expressions. Love making for me is like ecstasy. Merging your energy with another woman in such a close and intimate way is truly amazing. Sex is not just a psychical act, but it's very much something that occurs on a soul level too.

    Especially when it's someone that you actually love, and they love you back as well. Sex no longer becomes a physical thing, but transcends to something soul based.
     
  3. gainsrs

    gainsrs Fapstronaut

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    THIS is the kind of reply I was expecting, love it, can we talk on PM? I have some questions
     
  4. Of course we can talk through PM, bro. Fire away.
     

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