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What are your plans for Valentine's Day?

Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by Deleted Account, Feb 6, 2018.

  1. Journeyer

    Journeyer Fapstronaut

    Even though you may not have a significant other right now that doesn't mean that you can't celebrate love. Why not try spending the day doing things that let the other people in your life know you care about them? This is something we don't do enough. People might say that Valentine's Day is stupid, but the fact is, holidays are really good reminders for us. Spend all the love that you've been saving for that special person and pour it out on others, don't hold it back. You'll find that doing things for others is a great way to get your mind off of yourself and your problems.
    Have a Happy Valentine's Day!
     
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  2. Ongoingsupport

    Ongoingsupport Fapstronaut

    Well on a practical note there are at least 4 types of gifts:

    1. Gifts you're supposed to/expected to give via social expectation (flowers and chocolate)
    2. Gifts you're supposed to/expected to give - the person told you they want that (best scenario "you remembered")
    3. Gifts not expected but are pleasantly surprised by because it shows you know the person well and gave it good thought
    4. Gag gifts
    Notice with 3 and 4 the reaction can be positive or negative, but potentially positive because it shows (3) you really know the person or (4) made them laugh.
     
  3. Just Rose

    Just Rose Distinguished Fapstronaut

    I'm going to college, then I will go to swim, like all Wednesdays, and later I will buy a rose to myself because I'm tired of waiting for someone to give me roses, and later I have an appointment with my dentist xD
     
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  4. I have an evening planned with my favorite sock
     
  5. Peace467

    Peace467 Fapstronaut

    Do you only wash your socks on valentines day :O?

    I'm thinking I want to do something to show love to others. I have no GF and VD has always been a big stumbling block for me, but it should be a day of showing love to all and I want to cheer up the people who I know feel like me on VD. I just have no ideas of what to do currently!
     
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  6. Just Rose

    Just Rose Distinguished Fapstronaut

    Let's do a friendship messages thread :D and tell all your beloved how much you love them.
     
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  7. Truth be told, I’ve always been single for Valentine’s Day and I’m not sure if that’s sad or I just haven’t found the right person to share that day with yet.
     
    Last edited: Feb 11, 2018
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  8. Peace467

    Peace467 Fapstronaut

    YES! I love this idea, if someone doesn't already by VD then I will start one at some point in the day :)!
     
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  9. Joey26

    Joey26 Fapstronaut

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    My plan for Valentine’s Day is to pretend that it is not Valentine’s Day
     
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  10. Just Rose

    Just Rose Distinguished Fapstronaut

    Haha nice plan xD
     
  11. I think only plan we should have is not to watch porn, so its like regular day to us all, because not watching porn is our everyday plan. I live outside USA and its sad to see that valentine´s day shit is coming europe too. Valentine´s day is easiest to skip people like me who have no friends. Even my right hand is no longer my friend if you know what i mean.
     
  12. kingpietro

    kingpietro Fapstronaut

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    These are my plans for valentine's day :



    :)
     
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  13. dev1001

    dev1001 Fapstronaut

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    Never cared about Valentine's Day. And probably never will. Was fortunate enough to also have an ex-girlfriend who did not care about it. Been single since that breakup so it's become even more irrelevant since then.
     
  14. R5AU3R

    R5AU3R Fapstronaut

    I'll probably just cry like a bitch when everything passes.

    Like any other day.
     
  15. Joey26

    Joey26 Fapstronaut

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    This made my day.
     
  16. RunForrestRun

    RunForrestRun Fapstronaut

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    In this very day, I met my girl :)
    First time in my life I had the confidence to talk to a girl that I like. Not so much, but there is hope for me :)
     

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