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What do I do now?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Sezaddict10, Dec 20, 2018.

  1. Sezaddict10

    Sezaddict10 Fapstronaut

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    I won't lie now that I'm coming up on my second year porn free I been thinking that it's all going to waste. I'm pretty sure I'm a sex addict too and the only thing keeping me away from prostitutes was my financial situation. I can't be like my friends that don't want sex and whatnot. But being myself has gotten me in deep sh*t. Like the only way I see myself succeeding in life would be to go back to pmo. I also won't lie about the fact that I only started to be able to have real sex and not be taken down by PIED. I know this is weird to you guys because I'm the type of guy you are trying to run away from and trying not to be. But yeah that's the curse of me breaking free, I only recently gave up on trying to get sex after a long fight with myself lol but it's for the best. Still not sure about going back but it's a possibility since no one is really like me or understand what I am.
     
  2. IGY

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    I suggest you see a sexologist.

    The NoFap challenge is not designed to cure sex addicts. It is a porn recovery site and you have cracked that already.
     
  3. Sezaddict10

    Sezaddict10 Fapstronaut

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    This is too much of my identity now. If I didn't like sex or think of it at all i would feel empty. But you right I already quit porn and pursuing sex so this is next step.
     
  4. This is so sad to read :( you are sooooo much more than that! I wish I could just magically open up your mind to see your true self and your true identity, because this is NOT it! Please consider seeing a therapist who specializes in sex addiction, because this sounds like such a sad life to live. You are more than your sexuality. That is such a small piece of who you are as a person, and I truly hope you will soon discover who you really are, because it's not this.
     
  5. Sezaddict10

    Sezaddict10 Fapstronaut

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    I like women what can I say. I don't wanna be like the other guys and don't really want to go back to porn. Most of you think this shot is life changing but I feel worse than before I started lol especially almost coming up on 2 years.
     
  6. A lot of people like women. Finding your entire identity in sex, however, is not normal and not healthy. You're going to need some serious therapy to work through that.

    That's because you arent actually dealing with your problems yet. Porn is just a small part of the issues you need to work through. If you go to therapy and work through your sex addiction and identity issues, I'm sure you will feel better in the end. But working through issues like that is tough and will likely bring up a lot of crap, so you might not feel great in the middle of it. But that doesnt mean it's not good for you and wont result in something really great in the end.
     
  7. Sezaddict10

    Sezaddict10 Fapstronaut

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    I forgot this is the place where sexuality is something to run from. Maybe I was just made for this addiction.
     
  8. Nobody here is running from sexuality. They're running from porn, into healthy sex. Bro, I love sex, trust me. But i dont find my identity in it.
     
  9. Grandpa61

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    I'm not running at all. I've just messed up and now I'm trying to help my brain fix it! I hope you find what you are looking for my friend!
     
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  10. Just ignore this guy. He’s a troll. Every thread he posts in he talks about how anti-sex we supposedly are.
     
  11. Sezaddict10

    Sezaddict10 Fapstronaut

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    I'm just spitting with what I see. Don't act like you don't see it.
    Hopefully.
     
  12. I don’t see it because that’s not why people are on this site. The only thing I can figure with you is that you’ve read some online articles bashing NoFap so you’ve decided to come here to mock us. You have no clue as to why we are here and what our goals are. You think you know but you don’t.
     
  13. Exactly. I would say a vast majority of the people I've seen here, their sole reason for giving up porn and masturbation is because its ruining their sex life and they want to make their sex life better. I dont see how that's them running away from sex.
     
  14. Indeed. It angers me when I read articles about NoFap being sex negative blah blah blah. Porn is what is sex negative because with enough use it destroys people’s actual sex lives. NoFap and the people that use it are in fact the ones who are truly sex positive. The media, society and porn apologists have everything completely backwards regarding porn and sex.
     
  15. Sezaddict10

    Sezaddict10 Fapstronaut

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    I was shut out from the nofap subreddit because of the fact that I don't wanna run from my sexuality. It's the same spiel here.
     
  16. I’m done reading your nonsense. I’m blocking you because you’re just a waste of time.
     
  17. Amen
     
  18. Same, I'm just here to run from PMO because it has messed me up, and has twisted my thoughts into wanting and craving and thirsting for porn rather me striving to good in school or to workout or to have healthy relationships with women, real women, not whores.
     

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