what do I do?

Discussion in 'Off-topic Discussion' started by aakkss, Sep 11, 2015.

what do I do?

  1. join

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  2. ignore

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  1. aakkss

    aakkss Fapstronaut

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    okay, so I've started my college a month ago and it's basically a three years graduation programme.
    Lots of guys and girls are there. i even have a crush, but, there's already heavy rush.
    But, that's not my problem.
    my problem is that the boys have created a whatsapp group for all the fellow boy and are asking my contact no. to add me. And what I've heard about the group is they also share porn(as all are 18+) which includes images, vids and text.

    Here are the advantages and disadvantages, (which I can think of) of joining it...

    Advantages:-
    I will get every information and notices.
    I'll be connected with my buddies.
    I won't look like an introvert.

    Disadvantages:-
    Full of triggers.

    So, please help me out of this situation.
    You can give reasons in support of your answer...
     
    Last edited: Sep 11, 2015
  2. aakkss

    aakkss Fapstronaut

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    only one vote so far :(
     
  3. Hiro 304

    Hiro 304 Fapstronaut

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    You got a good streak, which probably is a good self control, dont worry. Triggers shouldnt be a problem at all.

    The group could be useful. I mean, what if you miss one class? You could get some info about it and get stuff done the next day!
     
    Last edited: Sep 12, 2015
  4. melancholy king

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    This is an issue of priorities, if you had to choose which one would you go for? if its nofap then don't join the group, if its your college mates then join it.

    I can't see how far your streak is (its blocked lol) but if you are far into it then perhaps you can overcome the triggers and just focus on everything non fap inducing, if your still early on then I say nay.
     
  5. aakkss

    aakkss Fapstronaut

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    Thanks for your reply. Right now I'm going through flatline and everything seems too easy, no urges. I think, I should think at it again when my flatline period is over. What say?
     
  6. aakkss

    aakkss Fapstronaut

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    I'm on my 19th or 20th day. Right now, I'll go for nofap I reckon. Thanks for your reply as well :)
     
  7. theDoctorSmith

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    You should change the setting to never download videos automatically and if images are a trigger then that as well. This way you can participate in the conversation without having to see any images or videos. Both goals achieved. You should do this only if you have some amount of self-control.
     
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  8. aakkss

    aakkss Fapstronaut

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    ahan, that should do the job. Thank you. I'll join it once I reach 45 days. Thank you. :)
     
  9. Harvhe

    Harvhe Fapstronaut

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    I would say join. I can sympathise with your concerns and i would at least rudimentarily just throw the main 18+ adult content distributers a gentle line or a olive branch to keep the content down (perhaps i am being too polite about all this, but try it anyway) while you are present.
     
  10. aakkss

    aakkss Fapstronaut

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    olive branch :). okay I'll join it once I pass 45 days. Thank you :)
     
  11. If you are constantly seeing temptation your going to slip up. If you were a recovering acoholic do you think you should take a few shots of whisky every once and awhile.
     
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  12. Surely you can find better support.
     
  13. wildwood

    wildwood Fapstronaut

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    Honestly if they were true friends they would understand you not joining. You'll risk your reboot just to talk to these "buddies"? No way, this is your life here. Go and actually socialize with them instead of chatting on WhatsApp. Triggers should be avoided. Everyone here knows that. Very disappointed in the answers here. Those triggers will slow your reboot. If they want to hang or plan a time they can just regular text you. Plus you can maintain your own college responsibilities without needing reminders from friends. You can do this, I know you can.
     
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  14. aakkss

    aakkss Fapstronaut

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    no, obviously not..
     
  15. aakkss

    aakkss Fapstronaut

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    First of all, thanks for showing trust in me.. This clears all the confusion. Btw, why did you change your avatar pic?
     
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  16. aakkss

    aakkss Fapstronaut

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    okay, thank y'all for voting and replying here and helping me as well. For now, I think I should wait before I reboot completely. :)
    Thanks y'all
    Take Care
    God Bless
    Stay Strong
    :)
     
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  17. wildwood

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    I thought some light hearted humor would be nice plus we're all awesome anyway =)
     
  18. aakkss

    aakkss Fapstronaut

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    I know you haven't asked me but, I did like the earlier one. BTW, who is he?
     
  19. wildwood

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    Gandalf the white from lord of the rings and the hobbit
     
  20. aakkss

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    And I was thinking about Professor Dumbledore. Not a crazy fan of movies. :)
     
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