What do you think about "The game"?

Hello, I've noticed that there is a divide in this community, those that are (usually) married and want to have a healthy sexual life, and those that want to start having healthy sexual relationships because PMO made them shy or hindered their social abilities.

I'm in the middle of these two and I've like to know if the pursue of women for the sole act of sex is a bad thing, when is it "healthy" and when is it just replacing PA with SA, when is it a nice way to build confidence and put social skills on test and when is it the idolatrization of women and the fetishization of body parts for the sake of personal self pleasure.

I know it is considered normal to hit on girls and casual sex is very common now a days but bad things have happened for following the flock