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What do you want more than porn?

Discussion in 'Self Improvement' started by SoundsGoodToMe, Sep 15, 2020.

  1. SoundsGoodToMe

    SoundsGoodToMe Fapstronaut

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    It's easy to say why you shouldn't look at porn.
    We're all experiencing the horrible effects that porn can have on our lives.

    So how do we get through and fight the urge?
    We find out what we want more than porn.

    For me, I want a relationship and amazing sex! I want to be turned on by a human being laying next to me rather than a body on a computer screen.
    It horrifies me when I think of the 15 years I wasted looking at porn. I can't get those years back but I can be damn sure that the next 15 years are completely different!

    It's easy to say "its too hard".
    It's easy to say "I can't help it".
    While it maybe hard (or not in my case haha) you certainly do something about it!

    Find out what you want to have in your life INSTEAD of porn.
    Find out whats missing in your life.
    Is it better sex? More hours spent with friends and family? A better relationship?
    Whatever it is, hold on to it. I've also found that talking openly to close friends have helped me. Even if its 1 person, just them knowing that you're sometimes not okay can be a massive weight off.

    I'm a 28yo gay man who suffers with PIED. I completed 90 days with zero porn an(and 45 days with zero orgasm) in Spring 2020 and saw great results regarding my PIED. But since Covid-19 I slipped back into old ways and found myself back here.
    Onwards and upwards!

    :)
     
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  2. SoundsGoodToMe

    SoundsGoodToMe Fapstronaut

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    it says on your day-counter that you're on day 1. How many long have you been trying out nofap?
     
  3. SoundsGoodToMe

    SoundsGoodToMe Fapstronaut

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    Feel free to message me privately if you want :)
     
  4. ThePeakWae

    ThePeakWae Fapstronaut

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    I wanna make a manga, get a Caravan and start investing in Crypto and I´m willing to give up fapping for those dreams!
     
  5. CrystalHorse

    CrystalHorse New Fapstronaut

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    I want to keep progressing as a person every day, stay away from stagnating and idleness.

    To better myself, be a consistant and more well rounded person.
     

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