That’s is the question. What do you want your future to be like and will doing nofap help with this. Also more importantly what do you not want your life to be like and if you carry on with Porn will this become true. So I just thought of this little thought experiment. I’d like to see how others would answer this question. I’ll start..... I want my future to include a girlfriend. Someone to share life experiences with. I want to be happy and wake up with purpose. I want to have a job I love (not sure what that might be) and I’m good at. I want my future to include a good group of friends. Is porn a part of this...no. What I don’t want my future to be like is.... I don’t want to be alone. I don’t want to be in a job I despise or I’m no good at. I don’t want to have no friends, I don’t want to be lazy unmotivated and unhealthy. Above all I don’t want to be sad in my life. If I continue using porn as a coping mechanism this could be the outcome. I’m aware these are extreme examples, and don’t necessarily hinge on my porn usage. But it’s good to see written down what I dream of and what scares me. It’s good to think of these when I’m tempted to look at porn. So over to you, what is your dream future and what is your nightmare future?