What do you want your future to be like?

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  1. Cornixico

    Cornixico Fapstronaut

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    That’s is the question. What do you want your future to be like and will doing nofap help with this.

    Also more importantly what do you not want your life to be like and if you carry on with Porn will this become true.


    So I just thought of this little thought experiment. I’d like to see how others would answer this question.

    I’ll start.....

    I want my future to include a girlfriend. Someone to share life experiences with. I want to be happy and wake up with purpose. I want to have a job I love (not sure what that might be) and I’m good at. I want my future to include a good group of friends. Is porn a part of this...no.

    What I don’t want my future to be like is....

    I don’t want to be alone. I don’t want to be in a job I despise or I’m no good at. I don’t want to have no friends, I don’t want to be lazy unmotivated and unhealthy. Above all I don’t want to be sad in my life.
    If I continue using porn as a coping mechanism this could be the outcome.


    I’m aware these are extreme examples, and don’t necessarily hinge on my porn usage. But it’s good to see written down what I dream of and what scares me. It’s good to think of these when I’m tempted to look at porn.

    So over to you, what is your dream future and what is your nightmare future?
     
  2. drac16

    drac16 Fapstronaut

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    I don't think about the future that much. I suppose I would like to get married one day. Everyone's looking for someone/something to give their love to, so I feel like I could be a loving husband. I'm not that enthusiastic about having a child, but if I met the right woman, that could change. Other than that, I'd like to get a job that I enjoy, so that I can be the provider and protector that I believe I am called to be.
     
  3. Infrasapiens

    Infrasapiens Fapstronaut

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    I want a wife, high speed internet and a good PC.
     
  4. ClickClickBoom

    ClickClickBoom Fapstronaut

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    Personally i just want someone who i could consider my equal, someone who i could give love and receive love without holding anything back.
    That's the dream, everything else will fall to place i care not for material things.

    Best wishes,
     
  5. I have issues and stress when try to think that far....

    I do better thinking about tomorrow , no further in general
     
  6. brilliantidiot

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    My dream job is to be a pilot in the military, extremely unlikely that I could pass all the screening.
    The main thing is that I want to remain faithful and become more faithful to the Lord.
    I want to have enough money that I don't have to worry about food and bills and can support a family without my wife having to work too hard if I ever get married (which I want but feel I'm not capable of).
    I want to help support my dad after my mom passes shortly
    I don't want to be miserable.
    I don't want to hate my job
     
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  7. Deadlihood

    Deadlihood Fapstronaut

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    Sorry about your mum. Here for you, mate.
     
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  8. Marcelo48

    Marcelo48 Fapstronaut

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    If my short/medium term future does not include PMO I would be happy.
     

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