What happened?

The scene from "When Harry met Sally" comes to mind where Sally fakes an orgasm in the restaraunt and the lady at the table behind her tells the waitress- "I'll have what she's having". While this is no joking matter, it's somewhat good to not take ourselves TOO seriously here either. Kudos to your commitment and to your progress here- read several of your posts and you clearly have the right idea. Sounds almost 'tantric-like'. Since it's with your GF and the state you're talking about is true intimacy so personally- I'd enjoy it and talk with your GF about how much she makes you feel. Strengthen that bond between you- it will only help advance your level of intimacy as you become man and wife.

Keep strong on eliminating the Porn/ PMO to stay clean. Avoid the MO so that ALL interaction is saved for a real intimate connection with your GF (ultimately your wife) and you will raise that level of experience even more. Unfortunately, I took all this for granted for years but now the level of TRUE intimacy and connectedness with my wife is amazing!! Sex is off the chart but it's REALLY that level of intimacy you're describing

 

Maninblack, welcome to nofap, and congrats on waiting til marriage. Great decision you will not regret. You cannot regret what you do not do.

I do not know what it is called, but I also find myself shaking when I am around my wife. I have gone hard mode, so the chance of sex is zero right now, but when we are hugging sometimes I will shake, just like I used to after a good orgasm. Sometimes when we are laying in bed snuggling I will also shake. My shaking may be 3-10 seconds, nothing like a minute you mention. I do not notice myself breathing heavy, but will keep an ear out for that.

Will be interesting to hear from others.

FW.