What happens to the nofap benefits after visiting a prostitute?

Discussion in 'Problematic Sexual Behavior' started by Eddy132, Nov 9, 2019 at 1:17 PM.

  1. Eddy132

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    I am thinking of visiting a prostitute after my 90 days to get used to sex before doing it with a normal girl. I want to know if this will have any negative effects on the benefits (less social anxiety,...)
     
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  3. Concorde-96

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    You may suffer some premature ejaculation
     
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  4. Bandeirante

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    Hey, bro!

    I'm thinking of going to visit a prostitute too after the 90 days.

    I know some people here aren't a fan of that idea, but I still think it is better than turning to pornography to fulfill your sexual urges. At the end, it isn't just you in a sad room all by yourself - you'll be there with a female companion and will have "real" sex ( as real as it can be when you're paying... ).

    I believe it is a good practice, you know ? BUT you shouldn't replace real sex with women who you're actually able to get with prostitutes - that would be bad for your health, socials skills and money.

    Just see 'em as practice and that's it.
     
  5. dankestmemes

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    I agree with you. It should be just practice. I've never been with a prostitute before so I can't have an informed opinion. As long as what you are about to do is consistent with your goals, you're doing the right thing. Be careful because any action can be rationalized.
     
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  6. Juggernaut90

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    I didnt had sex for years before my last one night stand. I fucked the woman the whole night with no problems. I wasnt on nofap though. Dont go to a prostitute. Better fap one time and go to nofap back.
     
  7. defect

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    why ?? what is wrong with hookers? in the past it used to be pretty normal visiting hookers... in rome, london etc, you were a man for visiting hookers and drinking too much alcohol lol, there were a bunch of bars with prostitutes etc. idk why people think prostitutes are bad nowaydays
     
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  8. Get_It

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    I imagine it's the cultural stigma depending on what culture you're from. As an American, people still have Puritan ideas about seeing Prostitutes the same way they view alcohol drinking, that there's still a "taboo" element to it.

    For someone who is European, like with alcohol, seeing a Prostitute isn't seen as a big deal either.
     
  9. Juggernaut90

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    I am european.

    Whores are even worse than porn or fapping. Sex with a woman is more than just fucking or getting an orgasm it is an holy and spiritual connection of two souls.

    6. 1 Corinthians 6:15-16 Don’t you realize that your bodies are actually parts of Christ? Should a man take his body, which is part of Christ, and join it to a prostitute? Never! And don’t you realize that if a man joins himself to a prostitute, he becomes one body with her? For the Scriptures say, “The two are united into one.”

    Luke 8:17 For all that is secret will eventually be brought into the open, and everything that is concealed will be brought to light and made known to all.
     
  10. Get_It

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    Well, you're coming at it from a Christian perspective, so I understand you would feel that way, but when I said European, I was referring to mostly secular Europe.
     
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  11. Juggernaut90

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    In what world is fucking a prostitute okay when fapping is not. Waste your time with masturbation and selfpleasure (like going to a living fleshlight = whore) or start manning up and look for a real woman.

    Not forgetting that most prostitutes arent doing this shit for fun. You take part in an sad, corrupted and life and love-denying industry.
     
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  12. Get_It

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    Our culture sees nothing wrong with fapping or seeing hookers. We on Nofap know better regarding fapping. Regarding hookers, save your preaching to me, you're now coming off as an overbearing, self-righteous Christian.
     
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  13. Juggernaut90

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    Then go to a hooker and regret it later just because you think im selfrighteous.
     
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  14. CS1

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    Just get new benefit that is HIV
     
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  15. blunt.ever

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    It's a good idea only in case when you will haven't a normal girl. If you doesn't, you reached back at masturbation and both are knowing that you wouldn't like this. Don't forget to use a condome. Good luck with your nofap unthil then!
     
  16. Chefb87

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    Agreed with juggernaut.

    I think going towards prostitution is going deeper into the addiction of sexual compulsion than masturbation. It's extremely dangerous, it's illegal in most places in the world. It's extremely addictive all on its own.
    It's not fixing the problem it's making it worse. Let's say you do go and see prostitutes to " practice " and then after you do find an amazing girl to spend your life with . Are you going to tell her youve seen tons of prostitutes or are you going to keep that secret ? That kind of secrecy, and dishonesty, and shame are the exact same feelings I'm sure you felt to make you think you needed to come on this site in the first place.

    Be very suspicious of your thinking. Is it you that's thinking that's a good idea, or is it your addiction that thinks that's a great idea ?
     
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  17. Homelander

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    I was also thinking about legally visiting a steady (clean) escort after my 90 day no-pmo streak for 30min Girl Friend Experience sex.
    Just to release the sexual pressure and to find out if my PIED is cured or not.

    However, I'm seeing a woman I met on Tinder and I must say that intimacy with her is far beyond anything I can
    expect from an escort. Seeing an escort sounds great, but for my PIED a 30min sex-window causes a lot of stress.
    So, for now I'm sticking to love and sex from a dedicated woman I can feel relaxed and loved with.

    But there is a big drawback of having a Tinderdate, because its emotionally very heavy for me to let go of a woman
    that has fallen head over heels in love with me. I don't (yet) feel in love with this woman, so this is going to be a problem
    after a few months.
     
  18. Juggernaut90

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    Focus on real love not bought love. Good job! God bless.
     
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  19. Get_It

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    Yup, you are a great Christian. Guys like you are a horrible example. Totally irrational and angry.
     
  20. dankestmemes

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    We need a crusade to take back the Holy Land.
     

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