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What is Porn really?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by RndyBm, Jan 19, 2020.

  1. RndyBm

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    OK. So I'm on a week-long streak. Thank the most high! During this time its given some clarity in my head again. So I wanted to share this with the wonderful community. I know. I've been away for awhile. And I have been deceiving myself. But no more. Its time to face reality. So I ask you. What is Porn. Really when you think about it.

    ITS WATCHING OTHER PEOPLE HAVE SEX. Simple. Now ask yourself. When you're batting your meat to those pixels or doing the female equivalent. Who's getting the pleasure. Really. Who is REALLY getting the pleasure. Is it you with your hand? Or is it the guy bonking the hell out of that fit bird who will do whatever he desires, because its her flipping job to do so! That's all. Paid. Fakery. Other people's pleasure. Who's getting the pleasure? Are you? That orgasm at the end. Compare that to the orgasms the actors and actresses are "so called" getting. Scratch that. Their pleasure is in the paycheck. So I ask you. Why watch and invest YOUR OWN PRECIOUS TIME watching other people having sex? Is your life really that worthless? Ofcourse not. You're just being deceived by this system. Be it hardcore, amateurs. Whatver your genre. You are watching other people take part in lust and their own "so called pleasure".

    The actress said it herself in the last scene I relapsed to, and it just hit where it needed to.. "you like that huh? Watching other people f"**? Because you're just a worthless piece of shit ". Who does she think she is? Are you going to prove her right? Seriously. Stop watching other people have sex.

    Rndy out

    Love you all and stay strong my brothers and sisters
     
  2. Muphy

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    Buddha said, good and bad are nothing. We dont suffer or enjoy. Its the craving for good things to last and bad things to get over soon makes us sad.
    We need to control the craving.
    What I feel is There is nothing wrong with sex or porn. But the craving is to be controlled. The craving that today I'll M or watch porn after reaching home etc need to be controlled.

    Good luck.
    :)
     
  3. Uncomfortably Numb

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    Very good points that we often overlook when we succumb to PMO
     
  4. RndyBm

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    Interesting to hear your take on it. Thanks and the same to you as well friend
     
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  5. RndyBm

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    These things need to be said my friend. Mostly as a reminder to myself, but to share it with you guys is a huge bonus.
     
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  6. Put it this way if your single , you don't fap and naturally you feel confident in Yourself to go after what you want . The alternative you fap to other people having sex you can wake up one morning feeling depressed and the only thing attributable is watching porn.
     
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  7. RndyBm

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    So true. But we must fight this desire!
     
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  8. HegHeu

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    No one liked porn when they first watched u know why cause it goes against our morals. Porn is against whatever we grow up with it's rebelling against society just like smoking.
     
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  9. DreamWick

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    Couldn't have said better we assess being deceived by them.Duck them and their shit.They just don't worth our Time
     
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  10. greenmtnboy

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    What is it? Partly fantasy, partly real people doing things for money they would never do without the money. No one likes to be abused, some women learn to see themselves as tools of pleasure. If this were a feminist genre, by women and totally open and affectionate that might be another matter. The stuff coming out of the San Fernando valley, LA and similar types are abusive. No woman wants anal, women don't like men spraying on their faces, most of the actions are very, very abusive.

    Think of women you know. Would any of them do the actions you see in porn? Maybe I'm in a repressed society, but I don't know any women who would do lesbian sex. My guess many women may call themselves lesbian after being abused by men.

    In a way the porn makes the peeping Toms, simpering voyeurs and passive observers into total suckers. Think of it, who is having fun and getting paid here? The men are left weaker and no where to go with their passions.
     
  11. RndyBm

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    100 percent! Keep saying NO✋
     
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  12. RndyBm

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    Well said my friend. And very valid points. It's real people selling their bodies for the money. So in that sense they're no better than prostitutes or hookers. They're simply doing the acts and "enjoying it" getting lost in their list. All for some money. Crazy when you think about it. When you take the money away. What is there? Just two naked people with broken dreams. You obviously have been fighting longer than I have and seen the damage this evil machine causes. How we can break free is by talking openly about it and sharing it with this wonderful community. Keep fighting brother.
     
  13. And we thank you for this. Porn is bad, it's fake, it's other people, it's not you, you are just the expectator that do not have the power for change anything on that video, but the best part, you can stop watching porn, stop faping, and go do the most obviously thing, change your life. With your OWN life, you can have sex, and this is not fake.

    No cameras, no privacy invasion, no fake sounds, just two people enjoying themselves, this became a little erotic, spoiler...
     
  14. That's true, so true... I do not want to support the industry that makes it anymore, and screw the "scientists" that say that porn is good, porn is the lust of Lucifer in form of videos (now I'm using Christian references.).
     
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  15. Infrasapiens

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    What is porn?
    Baby don't touch me
    Don't touch me
    No more.
     
  16. greenmtnboy

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    Also, how many women (or men for that matter) shave their public hair, which is definitely a "thing" in porn; the women look generally like plucked chickens ready for the roaster, except for their head hair. Interestingly the Greek root of porn is "porneia" with a connotation of an oven. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fornication "Vaulted like an oven or furnace; arched." https://www.wordnik.com/words/fornicate

    Women who are 18-25 are especially attractive, nature has given them charisma to make them attractive for procreation and marriage. No sane person except for the extremely religious should fault couples who live together making a commitment before legal marriage.
     
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  17. RndyBm

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    Thank you for everyone chipping in! It's great to see the wealth of different views and opinions. We just gotta keep fighting against this system. And for our sanity!
     

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