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What is wrong with me?

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Deleted Account, Jan 26, 2018.

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  1. Jan 26, 2018 #1
    Deleted Account

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    Hello Everyone,
    Before i start my thread this is a brief about me:
    -25 years old
    -no job
    -no girlfriend (still virgin)
    -no friends either
    -no morning wood (i don't remember since when but it is maybe over a 2 years)
    -healthy body
    -foggy brain
    -social anxiety
    -depression
    -no goals in life
    -guilty
    -start of pmo when i was 16 years old
    -struggling with NoFap (since a years) so much relapses

    Two days ago i decided to never look to a girl with lust, and because i like watching girls bodies and enjoy looking at them, so my decision was to never look at the girls body for the next 30 days, but today is my 2nd day and feel very empty and very tempted to watch (any part) of a girl body, but i decided to stop for a moment and be honest with myself and think about the real reason of why i want to watch (any part) of a girl, because that just didn't sound right to me, so i started analyzing the real reason about that and discovered that it is maybe because i just used to get an erection everyday day, so (no erection for full day) is new to me and is scaring me and to be honest i feel more powerful and confident and alive and even more secure when i get erected, so the last 2 day went like i am missing a part of my nature.

    Please give me your opinion about what i am facing, if you have faced the same probelm ever during NoFap, i just want to know if i am alone in this.

    By the way i don't think this is FlatLine because i can get erection when i watch girls.
     
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  2. Jan 26, 2018 #2
    balkanic_falcon

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    Brother, you're not alone in this. Many of us on this forum suffered from similar problems. I'm 21 years old, nofap did not solve all of my problems, but because of nofap i got a job, (because i had a more of free-time), i got a girlfriend, because i solve my erectile dysfunction, i solve my depression, because i decided to go to military, to solve porn addiction, i beat porn addiction... I did not solve all problems in my life, but i reccomend you to block pornography on your computer, forever. You will have many urges, but when you come back to watch porn, you'll see that it's blocked, so you'll remember why you blocked this shit forever.
    I was so addicted, brother, i watched female dominance type of porn... It's the most addictive shit ever... But i am on the way to victory, i did notrelapse 264 days... I feel much better with much more energy. You can do it! Don't give up!
     
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  3. Jan 26, 2018 #3
    Deleted Account

    Deleted Account Guest

    Thanks man, that is really helpful.
     
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  4. Jan 26, 2018 #4
    balkanic_falcon

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    Follow this instructions man, if you want to block stupid pornography from your computer.
     
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  5. Jan 27, 2018 #5
    Porn Killer

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    Your brain is trying to convince you that it needs lust (wether porn or not). It’s become such an integrated part of your life that you essentially are missing something according to you brain. Trust me, and addict of anything goes through this.

    The reason you feel more powerful with an erection is partially psychological and partially physical. With the former your mind is telling you it needs sexual stimulation to survive, so when stimulated you feel complete. With the latter, with an erection your body goes kinda into like a mating mode perse.

    Anyways you are not alone. The kinda stuff you are discribing is normal for people quitting. Stick with it and stay strong we are all in this thing together
     
    Porn Killer, Jan 27, 2018
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  6. Jan 27, 2018 #6
    Iguana

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    You do not have a job or a girlfrind or goals in life because your brain is convinced it "already got all it needs". This is because the part of your brain that seeks pleasure and goals is too primitive to tell that PMO is not a goal and is not good for you, all it sees is pleasure, so despite you knowing that it won't get you anywhere, you're so addicted that your brain tricks you to both crave PMO and make everything else less interesting
     
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