What is your key method To not watch porn?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by jk243, Oct 7, 2019.

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  1. jk243

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    It's been 3 years since I did one week porn free ... explain me how you go far beyond weeks without looking at porn ... I Know I'm not the worst or the best of us ... just tell me how To get it done ...
     
  2. Fada1

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    Apply Blocker X App on your mobile
     
  3. jk243

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    I always fine how To unlock my filter when I can't handle the urges.
     
  4. Fada1

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    This is what you're going to do. Set the app as part of your phone administrator. Get someone else to apply the password, so in that case you don't know it and can't uninstall it cos it's a phone administrator.

    I hope this helps
     
  5. jk243

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    I tried it bro ... but the problem is that with this freakin phone is when I reset the app (not the phone), all the security that I put stop working ...
     
  6. TheCalm

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    My longest streaks were primarily when I stuck to a strict workout routine, kept myself busy (with video games that don’t trigger urges, books and work) and reinforced my resolve not to fap and view pornography by consistently checking on /nofap subreddit and priding myself on my streak.

    That being said, tenacity is important. Hardly anyone can go cold turkey the first time when attempting to stop an addiction and keep up their daily streak. So you need to pick yourself back up again each time and ask yourself: “What caused my relapse, and: “What should I do next time to prevent it?”


    As long as you’re tenacious and maintain a fiery desire to eradicate pornography from your life you will eventually succeed.
     
  7. StonePlacidity

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    delete social media + determination. You failed because you don't TRULY WANT TO DO IT. Be a man, let your BRAIN think for you, not your DICK

    hope you find this useful
     
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  8. jk243

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    Thank you very much
     
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  9. jk243

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    Thank you man
     
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  10. TheCalm

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    That’s very important.

    One thing I noticed with my own mother is she often romanticized alcohol, and the more she did that, the harder it was for her to quit.

    It’s essential to realize that there is no beauty in addictive behavior. It’s barbaric, downright animalistic, and is degrading to the individual and a disgrace to the human race.

    However there is beauty in rising above barbarism - in doing your absolute best each day to overcome our strongest desires, knowing their harmful, and in refining ourselves into respectable individuals despite shortcomings. That is what it means to be human.
     
  11. jk243

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    I don't find social media triggering at all so I don't know why I should delete it. But you are right about détermination, my determination tends To fade aftee days without PMO.
     
  12. StonePlacidity

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    What is the motivation that make you persist? You have to find a goal to reach
     
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  13. TheCalm

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    It’s my pleasure. Good luck.
     
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  14. jk243

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    That was great. That what I'm trying To do all day. To do the best I can but I'm just falling away when it is about sexuality.
     
  15. jk243

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    1. Porn is a sin against my body as a Christian
    2. It destroys my mind , peace and body.
    3. Those women I'm lusting, are human beings. I can't handle watching girls being reduced To sex objets for human pleasure.
    4. Watching porn has never been something To be proud of.
    5. I cannot always control the consequences of porn addiction.
    ... I have too many motivations but I guess.. is not enough.
     
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  16. kosoyey

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    I am not a good Christian as @jk243 is, but his points are good.

    I'd add a really, really "down to Earth" additional reason to stop porn: consider what you have LOST by PMO, consider what you GAIN if you stop PMO.

    Just read my (good ending) story here.
    I've been PMO for decades. I've done death grip up to blood and physical damage, VN (far worse than PMO!!!!). I've done with prostitutes.
    I've done ALL the worst possible you can ever imagine and then some!

    What I have LOST:

    my L I F E !!!!!!

    I am still so ANGRY at my past me for having destroyed my own, whole life after PMO!!!
    36 (thirthysix) years of my life GONE! G O N E!!! I was a sitting, wrecked being, reduced to a vile, addicted human larva!

    What I have gained:

    an awesome, fulfilled second half of my life. I am so proud of my present self!

    It's not been an easy journey, believe me. You are to experience it yourself, first hand.
    But if a wrecked, addicted, human larva like me could do it, then you can too!
     
  17. shamrock19

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    My method is to become serious about this shit, realise how bad this actually is and to stop making excuses for myself.... Educate yourself on the brain/the mind and understand all its caveates and how it tries deceiving you so you watch porn....

    Watch porn = Miserable Existence

    No watch porn = A Fighting Chance at a Fulfilling Life

    That's the best maths your ever going to see ladies and gentlemen.
     
  18. jk243

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    Thank you
     
  19. jk243

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    Thanks man
     
  20. Infrasapiens

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    Shame.

    And I don't have the much of an internet access.
     

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