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What is your why?

Discussion in 'Success Stories' started by cr7da8055, Sep 8, 2019.

  1. cr7da8055

    cr7da8055 Fapstronaut

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    Why?
    Why should I not masturbate today?
    Was the question I asked my self everyday before going to bed, the usual time I fap. But guess what, I gave myself excuses to not masturbate. I’ve been in situations wherein I had to give my best, but because I had fapped the previous night, my performance was poor. I remember,it was the day when I couldn’t do simple 3digit x 3digit calculations, when I decided to stop fapping for good. I reached 82 days, but since I had caught with the flu, I decided to give in, you know cause your brain is fucked up during those times.
    Back again on day 42, and man NoFap still works like a charm. I’ve done whatever I have wanted to do, at least for the most part, and I have also motivated my real life friend to start NoFap, and he has already started reaping the benefits.
    Have a strong why. Write it on a sheet of paper and keep that as your go to emergency picture. Keep that as your wallpaper or something and read it whenever you get the urge.
    What is your why?
    Peace!
     
  2. Ferns

    Ferns Fapstronaut

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    My biggest why is that why would i want to do something that will only make me a miserable beta cook loser that depends on dopamine highs from porn lol

    Also, my mind got used to thinking that PMO equals to unsuccessful life. Thus, resulting to miserable life. If i did relapse, it would give me a feeling of emptiness followed by feeling of regret and self hatred which gives me the starting fuel to get back up and go at it again although after a few days, cravings will appear on my mind saying i should take a refreshing relapse.

    My another why is that it’s been a freaking long time since i decided to reach the 90th dah mark and why not keep going at it.
     
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  3. My reason is many things but the biggest reason would be, to become better than I was before and not wanting to feeling the emotions and negative impacts porn gives to me, I don’t want to be someone who can’t control themselves with lust, overwhelming emotions and thoughts. Being a person who can fight thru any struggle and not be being scared to confront it, being a stronger person in general is something that is going to make me have a successful happy life. Pmo is just one issue but like I said it’s all about what mindset u are in and porn really damaged my mindset in the past and the way I perceived myself
     
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  4. My why is mainly because watch porn is just wrong. It should be happening. I also want more brain power and energy. Thank you for your message! Keep it up!!
     
  5. Steven_TheOneAndOnly

    Steven_TheOneAndOnly Fapstronaut

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    Because I want more than anything in the world to become the strongest of my category
     

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