What kind of ED do i have?

Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by aston20, Dec 30, 2018.

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  1. aston20

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    Hi, i developed ED that i think is serious but i really don't know. My problem is that my erection literally last seconds. For example when i'm masturbating, i lose my erection if i stop stimulating. I can get 70-80% erection when i see porn but when i stop looking to it i lose my erection inmediatly. I used to PMO since 12 years old (Excessive PMO, 3-6 times per day). Now i'm 22 years old and i think i'm suffering PMO consequences.
    What do you think? Can i cure my ED doing Nofap? I remember that during this ED i had two good morning wood (100% hard and last 10-20 minutes) but now my morning woods are weak and last seconds, however it's improving because i'm on day 20 of no PMO hard mode.
    A thing that really worries me is that my symptoms are like venous leakage's and i'm depressed.
    Sorry for my bad english
     
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    I experience the same thing often; I can get hard, but as soon as I stop stimulating the erection goes down very, very fast. Next week I will have my first appointment with a urologist to discuss this issue and see if he finds anything. I have observed some improvements while not masturbating at all for several days. My penis starts to get more reactive to stimulation, I am able to remain erect for a lot longer, and morning wood are harder and last longer too, but if I have sex and ejaculate, then I need several more days of no sexual activity for my penis to get to that point again. I am 30 years old.
     
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  4. RollerCoaster

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    Seeing a doctor is a very good idea, please don't be ashamed because of that. The doctor has ED patients every day, so you are not a weird person to him ;)
     
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  5. You need to go at least a couple of months no PMO. Then you will start seeing results. Your penis is doing just what your brain is telling it to. Get hard when being overstimulated and then nothing. You have to reboot and clear out all of the bad programming in your brain. PIED is one of the most ugly consequences of prolonged PMO. YOU CAN NOT ENJOY THE REAL THING WITH A REAL WOMAN! This is a great evil. A reboot is a commitment for the long haul. Do not look for results after a couple of weeks. It took you years to get here it takes time to recover. But it is worth it trust me.
     
  6. aston20

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    Thanks for the responses. I went to various urologists and they told me that it is all psychological (i did several medical studies and found nothing). However, there is one more study i can do that is using papaverine to produce an erection without stimulation and then an eco-doppler or an ecography i don't remember, but one of the urologist told me that it is unnecessary because i'm young and it's dangerous, so now the only thing i will do is nofap for about 1 year or more to see more improvements because i PMO very hard that i considered myself a PMO addicted. I tell you this if someone experienced this too.
     
  7. I have experienced it. It is common among fapers.
     
  8. RollerCoaster

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    *fappers and former fappers :)
     
  9. Uruvug

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    I hope it goes away after a while of NoFap...
     
  10. domasfernandez

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    Hii did you cure it already?
     
  11. aston20

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    I would say yes. In the end, the problem was in my head. The excessive stimulation I received from watching porn made it difficult for me to maintain my erection if I stopped watching.
     
  12. skibum71

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    I think you definitely need a detox but (this is where i dont agree with all of nofap system), after this period, it is necessary (I believe) to fire up your arousal mechanisms, with fantasy, erotic thoughts etc...it may be slow at first but slowly things will start doing what they are supposed to, self stimulate, get some blood flowing there, again i know lots of people disagree with me but i honestly believe in a "use it or lose it", every part of your body needs regular stimulation to stay healthy, and i believe your dick is no different. Strict monk mode, if youre not getting any real action, NO pmo, NO fantasies, NO stimulation of ANY kind, I do not believe this leads to sexual health. Imagine if you applied this logic to any other part of your body. Apply monk mode to your arms for example, dont exercise, dont stimulate them, put them under no stress, they will get weaker and weaker til they are totally useless. The same thing would happen to every part of your body. I dont want this to happen to my dick.
    This has happened to LOTS of people here, everyday there are posts wtf ive been on monkmode X months, years, dead dick, no MW, no libido etc...and i think well, you pulled the plug on your sexuality, what do you expect??
    Ive been following these ideas, ive been seeing escorts cos its a very convenient way to have sex with lots of sexy ladies, saw a lovely girl today actually, things are absolutely moving in the right direction and im a whole lot more confident than the horrible feeling i had on monkmode, no libido, no arousal, unsure all the time if i still had ED and PE etc...
    Basically, use it or lose it. Your choice.
     
  13. Belching_Booch

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    What you say makes sense. What's a good balance in your opinion? I literally have the same problem as OP. I can get hard to porn or sexy images (takes a while sometimes) but erection goes away after a few seconds if I'm not constantly stimulating my member. How long should I do the reboot for, and what after that?
     
  14. skibum71

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    Yeah that was a thing for me too, as soon as i stop touching myself its curtains :) I dunno for me, it was a challenge to be able to get aroused just by sexy thoughts, it was slow going at first, and yeah i used viagra a few times just to get the blood pumping, but ive absolutely been able to do that, not an issue anymore. Then like you i noticed i had to be constantly touching myself, that worried me so that became the next thing to fix. So while self stimulating i just stop...and start again if ive gone a bit soft, youre just trying to introduce the feeling of not touching yourself. Start with short breaks, then make em longer. Gradually youll find you stay hard without touching.
    This is really what i mean with a use it or lose it attitude, i see these things like exercises, just as you would exercise any other part of your body that you want to be strong. Thats been my attitude for a good while now and ive made huge progress.
     
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  15. domasfernandez

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    Bro how did you fix that self touching? Because I think I also have the same issue
     
  16. skibum71

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    Touch yourself, get hard, stop touching yourself. Keep sexy thoughts but no touching. You'll prob go soft, that alright, thats what were trying to fix. Before you go too soft, touch again get hard again. And then stop again. And so on. Youre trying to stay aroused without touching, do this with fantasy/imagination - really immerse yourself in whatever fantasy you have, the sights, smells, tastes etc...the senses, really try and get turned on and forget about what is going on between your legs!!. This is key, really visualizing whatever it is (i could tell you mine but its private!) is what will fire up your arousal mechanisms, which my well be very rusty, and the arousal mechanisms will in turn result in erections which dont go away when you stop touching.
    Thats basically what ive been doing and ive not worried about this particular issue for a while now - and i believe once you stop worrying about these things, they will go away. I believe anxiety is the cause of these issues 99.9% of the time.
    I know this is kinda anti nofap. This is where i think the whole nofap thing fails. Give up porn, yes, very good move, it does nobody any good, provide a community for PMOers, brilliant. But it says NOTHING about restoring sexual health. And if youre on monkmode, and you SUCK at picking up girls, then you are a sexual non-entity, no sexual stimulus, nop sexual release, nothing...and i just had enough, it did nothing to help my ED/PE and i just thought fuck it, im gonna see escorts,the only way im gonna fix these issues is through actually having sex. I was scared to death 1st time with an escort, first time in 10 fkn years. Ive seen 4 girls now, 3rd one was really nice and the last one was amazing. Feels great to be getting the motor running again, the more i do it the easier it gets, what im doing might not work for everyone but its absolutely working for me.
     
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  17. I would like to ask you something. Can you do it hard without manual stimulation? Just looking at erotic content?
     
  18. Endlessknight

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    How long did you without porn or masterbation before seeing an escort?
     
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  19. skibum71

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    I think it was about 3 months. Did monkmode 2 years longest stretch about 6 months. I definitely felt my sexual health decline during this time, i had issues with ED and severe (like single digit seconds severe) PE, massive performance anxiety. I decided nofap/monkmode is basically "ignore it hope it goes away" or a "bury your head in the sand" and if i carry on like this nothing will ever improve. So i decided to see escorts, and things are improving. Last time i lasted as long as i wanted, ive never lasted that long before. Had to finish myself off! It was incredible. Yes i used pills but if they work and give me more confidence, which ultimately is what will fix the issues, then im happy to take it.
     
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  20. very good advice :emoji_point_up:
     

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