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what should i do

Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by jlsl16, Apr 8, 2018.

  1. jlsl16

    jlsl16 Fapstronaut

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    well first at all i speak Spanish so sorry if i have a little mistakes
    so i have this question for a long time.
    i am in a long distance relationship and we see each other every 3 or 5 months but in the mean time we have hot conversations and we send picture of each other, we are now 2 and half years dating so we have a lot of confidence. but the problem is that i want to stop seeing porn and masturbating with porn. but at the same time i do not want to change the way i am with my girlfriend. but sometimes when i masturbate with seeing my girlfriend or thinking on her that trigger my urges of seeing porn. so the question is if i should stop masturbating thinking or seeing my girlfriend for the purpose of stop my addiction whit porn ? ... maybe i know the answer but i want to hear what you can recommend me in this affair.
    thanks
     
  2. Karimtolstoi

    Karimtolstoi Fapstronaut

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    Maybe you should try to be on hard mode. Furthermore, are you sure that you relationship with the girl is strong enough to call her your girlfriend because sometimes long distance relationships are tricky...It happens that one side considers himself engaged while the other takes it for a mere friendship, so unless you are sure about the status of that relationship, I recommend you to be cautious.
     
  3. jlsl16

    jlsl16 Fapstronaut

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    thanks for the advice maybe be in the hard mode is the best to do. and yes yes we are very serious i have stayed in her house with her family for more than a month when i visit her and i have travel with then and everything, we spoke every day and we chat a lot via skype. we are just waiting to finish study to live together. but thanks for wondering i know long distance relationship sometimes are a little tricky but yes i am very sure of her.
     
  4. Irshad

    Irshad Fapstronaut

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    Don't masturbate and don't think about sex. I have learnt from this forum that these things can cause relapse and prolong your reboot.
     
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  5. jlsl16

    jlsl16 Fapstronaut

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    thanks you are right i must be in hard mode. the problem is trying in not think about sex with my girlfriend but i have to try.
     
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