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What to do in Freetime

Discussion in 'Self Improvement' started by Life193, Jul 4, 2019.

  1. Life193

    Life193 New Fapstronaut

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    Hey everyone thanks for joining in first of all :D

    Lately I kinda feel bored even if I'm actually really motivated to do some stuff.
    I've done some productivity like clean up or get things tome and tbh I made that to my daily schedule so it's not really a thing to kill time and more a responsibility :D

    I do have one good friend but I would like to go out alone more often so I can get to meet some women all by myself, but there are just a couple of bars around my town and it's not really a fun place to go if u're 19 and u want to meet some girls without alcohol at daytime.
    I do work out in a gym but that isn't a place to go when u're bored either so my question to u is, what do u do for fun or to meet some new people?
    What kind of hobbies could u recommend that won't cost me that much to try out?
     
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  2. BMHoff

    BMHoff Fapstronaut

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    I recently started attending a country dancing event that meets weekly. It's cheap and loads of fun. Maybe you could find a group like that. My friend found this group's special event on Facebook. We attended, and I learned that they also meet weekly.

    Also, I'm trying to get involved in a running group, or some other type of sport that requires no commitment. In my city, there is a large group of people that plays ultimate frisbee weekly. I was invited by a friend to go to ultimate frisbee, during which I learned they have a Facebook page.

    Churches, especially larger ones, often have many options for activities and events for people our age. In my city, we have a Christian megachurch that has a large young adult community, bible studies for all ages, and even several support groups for various problems. Furthermore, we many non-Christian churches that have large communities and do many volunteer events. If you appreciate religion but don't specifically identify with any, you may find comfort in a Unitarian Universalist church.

    Have you tried the website/app Meetup? They have various groups like going out to eat/drink, sports, hiking, board games, and more. I don't think the young population is vibrant on it but it's a possibility.

    If you have a local university nearby, you may be able to find groups around there. On the website of mine there is a page for organizations that include both students and community members.

    There are various gyms in my city, so of which I heard have classes and groups. You could consider finding a more active gym. I go to Planet Fitness, which doesn't have much. One of my favorite things was joining a rock climbing gym. However, this was expensive ($60 a month), and I quit when school started. You could also consider a martial arts gym of some sort.

    Something I'm trying to do is to ask my acquaintances if I can simply join them if they do anything fun. Usually, people will say yes, especially if you are open to any plans. This seems to work sometimes.

    I know exactly what you're going through. I'm trying to get involved and social, but I'm finding it much more difficult than expected. I find that weekly groups are best for me.

    Best of luck!
     
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  3. Life193

    Life193 New Fapstronaut

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    Thank u sir, i'll definitely try some things out especially those university groups could work for me.

    Good luck as well:D
     
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