Hi. First I would like to clarify that I did join Nofap about 1 year ago, But I've relapsed after 2 months. And I was like ok I'll continue wanking myself what's the harm? However 2 weeks ago something struck me like a dagger ,that literally made me shed few tears. My ex fiancée got married to someone else. It felt like a lighting strike to me. like how could she? I knew right then that I had to change myself I have to move on. I have to be something better. I started dieting, focusing more on my studies to build my way into an engineering college, and started Nofap. Anytime I had the urge I tell myself your fiancée is probably having sex with someone else right now while you want to have sex with your hands and computer !! What a loser. This always makes the urge disappear and fuel me with more motivation towards my goals. I'm sorry if my story seems sad for you. But how about you ? why did you start Nofap?