Whats your motivation!?

2wolves

2wolves

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I need to stop watching because it drains me of happiness and energy.
It takes all of my goals and slowly destorys them.

Im doing this to show my younger brothers i can actually accomplish what i say. I know they look up to me and i have been letting them down.

Im also doing this because of people i dont even know yet. Like my future wife and kids, nephews and nieces.

And im doing this for me.
Because i think i deserve happiness after years of being on this rollercoaster ride of depression and lies.

Whats motivating you today??
 
It drains my life energy. And the result of low life energy for me is social anxiety, huge procrastination, lack of will and discipline, lack of self confidence, depression, etc. All of which leads to low vibrational mental and physical states. It's like being a car without gas; all you can do is sit in a garage and let the rust slowly rot you away. Pretty much everything opposite of being alive.
 
2wolves said:
So last month i relasped hard and i deff started breaking out with acne. I didnt realize it was related, thays crazy...but stay motivated friend! We can do this!
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Thanks bro, you too. It took me years to realise there was a link between the two. Vanity to the rescue.
 
Celestial Power Generator said:
It drains my life energy. And the result of low life energy for me is social anxiety, huge procrastination, lack of will and discipline, lack of self confidence, depression, etc. All of which leads to low vibrational mental and physical states. It's like being a car without gas; all you can do is sit in a garage and let the rust slowly rot you away. Pretty much everything opposite of being alive.
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Thats deff true. Deff feel stuck rotting away slowly. For me i can used porn because it dulled my social fears. So i became really addicted because i felt like i needed it to even talk to people, but as ive been weakening my use over the past year im starting tk realize thats not the case, and i have other issues that i needed to fix to help my social fears, not just numbing my whole world with porn. But we got this! Lets kick this evil!
 
2wolves said:
I need to stop watching because it drains me of happiness and energy.
It takes all of my goals and slowly destorys them.

Im doing this to show my younger brothers i can actually accomplish what i say. I know they look up to me and i have been letting them down.

Im also doing this because of people i dont even know yet. Like my future wife and kids, nephews and nieces.

And im doing this for me.
Because i think i deserve happiness after years of being on this rollercoaster ride of depression and lies.

Whats motivating you today??
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It's like I am reading myself
 
I agree, I want to become a better person. I had the realisation last night that at the root of much of problems is not just my sexual impulses, but the fact I spend too much time focusing on my own pleasures when I need to devote as much time to giving to people around me. I believe if we can focus ourselves on giving love to our friends and families and devoting ourselves to our work we wont have as much time or effort for porn and other time wasting.
 
Schroudinger said:
I agree, I want to become a better person. I had the realisation last night that at the root of much of problems is not just my sexual impulses, but the fact I spend too much time focusing on my own pleasures when I need to devote as much time to giving to people around me. I believe if we can focus ourselves on giving love to our friends and families and devoting ourselves to our work we wont have as much time or effort for porn and other time wasting.
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Thats a great point, i have noticed that when i am in realtionships with a girl my porn use goes wayyy down, and i dont think its just because of the sex, but the love thats going on there ya know, i guess i have to transfer love to other real life things. Great point
 
I want to quit porn because I am not the person I used to be back then (extrovert,energetic,etc). I want to have healthy relationships with the people who are close to me. I used to watch porn to runaway from my problems rather than facing them directly. I think quitting porn will help me know where my life is heading and look at the future in a positive way.
 
ma1000 said:
I want to quit porn because I am not the person I used to be back then (extrovert,energetic,etc). I want to have healthy relationships with the people who are close to me. I used to watch porn to runaway from my problems rather than facing them directly. I think quitting porn will help me know where my life is heading and look at the future in a positive way.
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Thats a great reason to quit! I can relate, all my goals just seemed to fizzle away. Without porn i believe i will have a wayy better outlook on the future! Thanks for your post
 
Because I want to get my life back. Really. For a long time, I forget "feeling normal" or "feeling good" . I always feel depressed while I was starting to watch porn. My motivation? Being myself for a human. Get my potantial back. Because I hate to being zombie. Pornography affected everything. I hope every person get theirs life back.
 
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