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Discussion in 'Accountability Partners' started by HippyMinstrel, Aug 25, 2016.
The actions of the few shouldn't reflect on the many.
Happens more often than not... and not just on this issue.
Obviously, but constant negativity towards men, paints the good ones bad to people who wouldn't know otherwise, creates divides and further increases lack of trust in men, even to the point where people feel these days that men just want to creep on women.
The actions of the true "creeper men" makes the good men feel like they shouldn't communicate with females at all, in fear of being pre judged or seen as a "creep" just for communicating with women.
Sad sad world we live in...everyone is scared of eachother, because of focus on negativity "teaching" us what's most heard of. Nobody cares about the good in this world anymore.
pmo is pmo ...whether male /female doesnt matter.... just help each other out
yes plus men are commenting on women's threads where I'm not sure if they are comfortable with them doing so when they are asking for help
the issue is though some women have stated in there threads that their question is to women who are seeking help from other women. but guys are still commenting on their thread and asking for them to be there AP. pmo is pmo but you have to respect people's wishes if they say they don't want guys replying on their threads then don't reply
QUOTE="jojosaha, post: 848803, member: 124770"]pmo is pmo ...whether male /female doesnt matter.... just help each other out[/QUOTE]
I agree the same thing with reddit nofap. literally a women posts and guys are flocking to their question even when it sometimes says this question is only for women. but a guy posts and maybe one or 2 replies
I got the point and I agree that it's both helpful and healthy to listen to women's point-of-view on this matter. And I understand that some of us are stronger than the others. But we must help the weaker links of the chain.
I was scared with the STORIES, PAST EXPERIENCES that we can find in the woman's section. I just read one post and stopped there, and never went on that section again. For a guy trying to get rid of that stimulus, that's like porn literature, that's like a kryptonite. On the very first thread that I read the girl were explaining things a little bit too much. It could be VERY DANGEROUS for a lot of guys!
This place should be a temptation-free environment.
One of the best pieces of advice on quitting porn is to FLEE FROM IT, not read triggering stories and resist, not live near it and resist.
I dont like girls. Girls like me
OMG, thats so true. I read a few titles and wandered into some threads there which would otherwise be an entire turn on, if I weren't keeping off PMO. No doubt, its very dangerous for a relapse. Any detail of a woman's anatomy can be best avoided, let alone being an AP!
What do you mean by this mate??
In my opinion it really doesn't matter. Like someone said we are fighting the same enemy. I like a mix of everything (male/female/religious/non-religious), the more diverse the better cause though we may not relate in certain areas, i may find myself strong in one persons area of weakness and give some valued advise and they the same. If you really think about it, you will find that actually advise from the oppisite sex carries more weight. Damn!!! i think i should find me a girl.
Oh man here comes the man vs female drama after all no one wins......
If around normal man women´s already got attention...imagine here where everybody is literally a pussy slave
FEmale AP what it means
As a straight male. I do not see how a female would be able to help me. I get the argument about areas and stuff. However porn has a different affect on male and female.
I now identify as female; after all, gender is a social construct. Problem solved!
Yeah its a shame .. smh