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When Bad Dreams become a Good thing?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by BeachDude1992, Apr 21, 2016.

  1. I'm on Day 61 and I had a bad dream yesterday. I took a nap after working out. I was dreaming I was walking on the streets somewhere in Virginia...I looked at my pants, T-shirt, and it was ripped...like a homeless person...I couldn't control my dream or my actions in my dream...I kept walking down the street and begged people for money.

    Then...I woke up...I realized something.
    All this procrastinating, playing videogames, lying to myself, lying to others and lying to my parents...will get me nowhere. I went to the kitchen to check on my parents. I look at my dad, he has gray hairs... I realize...He's getting old. I am getting older too. He tells me to do something....I usually just ditch him...but this time, I do what he told me to do. I know that someday he won't be here anymore and I'm really scared to lose my dad or mom. It's that emotional connection I need to bring back from fighting with them over the years. I caused them too much stress. Probably because I was fapping to porn 24/7, eating junk food and procrastinating! I need to get my life together. Focus on school, focus on making good friends, and focus on becoming independent.! Life is a road, we got to keep going and money and love is the fuel!
    This dream was a bad dream...but I learned something valuable from it. WOW..I don't want to become homeless. If I keep going the same way I was before, I would probably go nowhere in life.

    I'm asian. not many asians become "unsuccessful". It would be a disgrace to the family.
     
  2. That's a pretty insightful dream and realization. Some might even call it a divine vision. Don't let that insight go to waste. Get things done. Never procrastinate again. Reconnect with your parents. Be kind to them and to yourself. I think if you did this, you'd be one step closer to achieving a Nofap super power.
    Cheers,
    FPDoc
     
    BeachDude1992 likes this.
  3. you're right bro. Thanks!
     

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