When do Wet Dreams occur?

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  1. Kohai

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    I had a stressful time, because i got hit by a wooden plank two times on my left calf.
    I got anxiety after this, because i didnt know if my calf would heal by itself after. Because i couldnt contract it anymore that good and it movement were also slower as my right calf. I searched the whole internet, some sources said muscle would regenerate, some sources said it would be replaced by scar tissue.
    I was so angry and depressed, because i wanted to participate in a new team sports at my university but was afraid to start the sport with my slowed left calf. There were just 2 bruises on my left calf, which are already nearly insivisible. But the worry that their could be permanent damage made me mad. I wanted to wait before i visit the doctor. And i know that they couldnt also do much, because there was just 2 bruises. I already used horse balm and it also got better betweenwhiles. But i shout at the person who did this to me( it was my mom, we had a little argument), she has an allotment garden where i had to help on this day. But i was tired from university the last days before and i didnt sleep well on that day. Also im worried about my exams and i was angry about some things about my past, for which i blamed my mother. Because she overprotected me a bit which made it hard for me to make real contacts with my school mates. I got shy after a while because my mom didnt allow me to socialize with my mates. I remembered that and i imagined how i would be today if she didnt do that. That i maybe would be a better, confidenter version of myself. Yea and some other problems in my mind with "friends" in my senior classes, who wasnt real friends. All of that stressful thoughts + my tiredness from commuting to my university and some of my failed exams stress i didnt want to work that day at this garden of my parents!!! I think its kinda comprehensible. And this allotment garden is a hobby of my mum, not my hobby. I dont mind to help in her garden, but if im stressed like that and tired, then i dont want to. So what happened actually in the garden?? i just laid there on the swing with closed eyes(trying to sleep), my mum called me but i didnt want to work. I just slightly shot a ball 3 times in her direction, it hit her 2 times. But slight shots, not even real shots. I placed my foot under the ball and then tossed my foot. It wasnt a hard shot, but she get very angry and then hit my left calf 2 times. But this pain also helped me to wake up from my depressed phase and i realized: wow, be happy, THAT YOU ARE HEALTHY AND HAVE A FUNCTIONIONING BODY WITH 2 HEALTHY LEGS AND 2 HEALTHY ARMS. Because after that hit my left calf was a bit numb, aching and slowly moving. Also i couldnt contract it and couldnt move synchron, i kinda had to drag my left leg along for a while.

    All this fear about my calf not getting it feeling back made me mad and i shout at my mum again 2 days ago( 1-2 weeks after that accident). I will visit the doc on monday and ask him everything. But this drove me crazy and i started to shout at my mum and pushed her sometimes. I didnt hit her, just pushed her because how could she do that. After that i felt very bad, i excused. But then i went to gym and got very horny and then when i slept i get a wet dream.

    So for me wet dreams, always, ALWAAAYS happen when i have a bad time. The body is using this mechanism automatically when im stressed too much. This beef with my moom stressed me too much i got guilt feelings because i pushed and shouted to her, but still was angry about my injury and that its sooo unfair that i want to participate in a new sport but noooo she had to injure me.!

    So i think, wet dreams, sexual desire, increased whne you are stressed. I was horny at gym at this day, there was a lightly clad girl, i didnt even watched her, but got one glance. I went beast mode at gym. It felt so good to push the weight, i got a small erection and couldnt do anything against it...
     
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  2. 220woof671

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    Your leg should heal fine.

    Initially, it may have 'stung' a lot.
    More damage = more time is needed to heal. You are young & healthy, so I'd guess approx. 4 weeks to heal. You should notice increasing range of motion and decreasing pain as time passes.

    (Online) -- "Wet dreams are normal -- you can't control them. They happen so the body can release the hormonal build up of the teen years. Wet dreams occur on into the adult years. Girls can also get wet dreams -- but they are much messier in guys."


    Its Good you went Beast Mode at gym to get rid of energy.

    Its Bad (disrespectful) that you Push....kick a ball at ….. or shout at your Mum.
    (Next time tell her that you had a hard day..... you're very tired..... you are stressed ….. you had big tests ……. and you have to spend hours on the subway/bus) Tell her the truth.

    And next time, perhaps stay inside to take a nap?

    Next time you are angry at her, I'd recommend leaving the area ASAP.
    Go for a walk...….
    Go to the gym...….. to get rid of your excess energy. Go talk to girls..... call a friend...… go listen to your favorite music...… or buy yourself a treat for Leaving a Problem Area.
     
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  3. MrBean

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    Hey man, I feel I can help you with your situation because I've been in your shoes.

    I never realized why my parent was so over-protective. From what I've understood, it's because they care for you. It's because you're the number 1 priority to them. To be honest, I didn't accept this the first time I was told. But then I slowly understood.

    What I do differently now is that I don't do anything to irritate them. They will get irritated. After all they're humans :) They have so much on their mind. We just don't know that. So I suggest you don't do anything to irritate your mother henceforth. It would help prevent such situations o.

    Every second you spend with your parents matter. You can be angry at your parent every second of your life. But you realize the value of your parent when they're not there to do what they do, which would be to protect you and take care of you. Isn't it better to be happy rather than stay mad? Because you don't know when that time would come when they're not there. At that moment you would regret not making things right.

    I suggest you make things right your parent. Be open. Share what you feel. After all, they're the only ones in the world who understands you the best, cause they've raised you for so many years. Yes, you were injured by your mom. You think you can't play. They're all transient thoughts and feelings. You're giving yourself a reason to stay angry. Hold onto your parents for dear life because you need them. Please watch this video.
     
  4. Kohai

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    yea thank you. I pushed her, after she destroyed my leg. I shout at her, AFTER she destroyed my leg. The ball was just out of joke, and i didnt kickted the ball, just tossed it a bit out of a joke. Even if it would hit her, it woudlnt hurt her, so easy i tossed the ball. So this accident where my mum crushed my legs is a half year over. My calf healed a bit, it isnt that numb anymore and i can flex it. But in calf raises, an exercise, my left calf is half as strong as my right calf. There is much damage done to my calfs. and yea, i cant flex it fully. The full range of motion is still lose, docs cant ir actually wont help me. I got desperate again and distracted myself with video games for a while. I will go to a doc again and will demand some mrt or some real answers to my question.
     
  5. Silver382

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    I'm time you will understand that life can deal out some hard hurdles to overcome. I'm sure your mother hurts for the I injury you have every time she sees you struggle to overcome . Try to deal with your angry feeling with out hitting your mother. Try talking to her about your feelings. When hormonal levels are high you get angry quicker and tend to get aroused easy. Wet dreams are normal considering you seem to be of a younger age. I wish you Good health and a speedy recovery
     

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