Hey folks, got an interesting question. I'm in a relationship. I fantasize about other women, I love looking at photos and videos of naked women (and also porn, but it's mostly nudity and the different body shapes that excite me). I'm having commitment issues in my relationship and part of me would love to go back to being single, and start sleeping with lots of women again, enjoying the variety. I had a conservative upbringing, then discovered sex in my mid-twenties, slept with a lot of women over a couple of years, then met my now girlfriend. So I didn't really spend much time living the "single life" before I met my girlfriend. How do I know if this is an addiction/problem that i need to fight, in order to have a better relationship? OR Could this just be my gut telling me that I'm not yet ready for a relationship? OR We are hard wired to an extent to want a variety of sexual partners - could I just be hard wired for this and not cut out for a relationship? I'm struggling to know what the answer is - I would hate to throw away a good relationship, but I would also hate to look back in 20 years and regret missing out on experiences. Obviously, I don't expect anyone to provide me answers, only I can do that But has anybody got any experience / information / words of advice about this?