When should I quit Nofap (website)

Discussion in 'Self Improvement' started by leo da king, Aug 28, 2017.

When should i leave the website?

  1. 5 months no PMO

    2 vote(s)
    33.3%
  2. 6 months

    1 vote(s)
    16.7%
  3. 7 months

    3 vote(s)
    50.0%
  1. leo da king

    leo da king Fapstronaut

    So as you can see on my counter, I'm close to 5 months No PMO on my first try, which feels amazing since I've never relapsed before.

    I wanted to quit the website (I'll never go back to PMO again) at 90 days but I wanted to help people and see.

    So I help people for about 50 days, but people are ALWAYS arguing when I try to help them.

    I've put numerous of help quotes and threads and I've saved many people from relapsing.

    Just as a person finally rides a bike without training wheels, I know I have to go off the site, but I don't know when.

    I've fully rebooted if that helps
     
  2. You should quit right now.

    Also you sound pretty full of yourself from what you've written. Thanks to you I now have a mental image of your head being too big to hold up, like an orange on a toothpick, so when you're on your keyboard saving the world you need a special kickstand to keep your head in place so your hands are free to type your internet gold.
     
  3. leo da king

    leo da king Fapstronaut

    Sorry, if I sounded that way. It's ironic since irl I sound the opposite
     
  4. I would personally suggest to remain free for an even 6 months. Why? I don't know, I like even things I guess.
     
  5. leo da king

    leo da king Fapstronaut

    I don't mean like give up Nofap as in the challenge. What I mean is Nofap.com
     
  6. sfmark12

    sfmark12 Fapstronaut

    As long as you make this a lifestyle it shouldn't matter when you quit.
     
  7. Enderswish604

    Enderswish604 Fapstronaut

    @leo da king

    Honestly it is entirely up to you. We all come here, not to be selfless and help others, but because we are broken and seek support and help in order to put ourselves back together. There is no compulsion on returning the favour. However nearly all of us find that it keeps OURSELVES on track to do.
    The only thing that unites fapstronauts is the common enemy : PMO, but even then what it means is subjective and personalised to all of us. We all have to fight our own battles, this place just helps us pick out the best tools for those battles.
    Maybe just take a step back, like reduce how often you come here, clear your head and perspective. A lot of us do "Monk" mode to just detox from all or the most time draining forms of technology, and it does help a lot. So maybe give that a go.
     
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  8. leo da king

    leo da king Fapstronaut

    I might try monk mode and do Nofap 1 hour a day and see how that goes
     
  9. I understood that and I thought my answer explained it well enough. Apparently, it didn't so here is my second attempt.

    I would continue stopping masturbation and after 6 months of that prior task completed I feel that I could walk away from this community. Before leaving I would publicly thank the administrators for putting up a website that enabled me to get the support to complete this challenge.
     
  10. Irish Explorer

    Irish Explorer Fapstronaut

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    If you make a decision that PMO isn't part of your life anymore, you could leave the site after one day. But you shouldn't just be here to receive. For me, it's about giving. I consider myself semi-retired from the site. I'll leave it for a couple months then dander in to give my two cents when the invitation is there. Most people on this site aren't the least bit serious about recovery and therefore never will, but there are those that are genuine and I hope that my contribution points them in the right direction. Personally, I'd suggest you pop in now and again to give back.
     
  11. Daijimbo

    Daijimbo Fapstronaut

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    i quit the website a long time ago , and i came back recently

    This website is a good ways to ''give'' to other people :D Talk about what you learn , other point of view about PMO or more like ''personnal devellopement''

    you can decide to do 15 minute each day , for communicate with other people or echange with a good mentor , or came back when you feel bad and need help , or too give love and share :D

    You can quit nofap right now ! :D and use this time to make what you want or productive thing to achieve your goal !
    Also i want you to analyse something
    '' when did you come to nofap forum '' ? when you are bored ? when you don't know what to do ? to avoid to make something else ? procrastination ?

    for exemple about procrastination , if you need to do your ''home work'' for exemple but instead you go to nofapforum ... the forum is not the REAL problem because if you stop nofapforum , you will do something ELSE to avoid your homework ( because in your head homework equal pain )
     
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  12. Daijimbo

    Daijimbo Fapstronaut

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    Its also about ''focus'' when you are in a forum like that and you are not ''CLEAR'' about what you want !
    You will check ''one topic'' and then an other , and exetera , but for me i have no problem i usualy do 30 minute maximum
    However for exemple , when you use Youtube and you see the ''recommendation bar '' You can be surprise how many time you watch some video ( like porn it never end , thats why i install google chrome module and now i only check about my abonnement and thats it ^_^)
     
  13. HappyDaysAreHereAgain

    HappyDaysAreHereAgain Fapstronaut

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    It depends on your goals and situation.
    90 day reboot should break your habit.
    Another 90 days should let you develop good habits of exercise, diet, meditation, and sleep, generally, a healthy lifestyle.
    A third 90 concentrating on social activity and friendships should help you find a real partner.
    Finish your year developing your relationship with your partner along with continuing all of the above.
    Many leave early and then return to do it over. With a healthy life and relationships, you should never have to come back here. Best of luck.
     
  14. Mavricko

    Mavricko Fapstronaut

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    Why do you have to give up nofap.com? Depends if you enjoy helping others or not
     

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