Now I'm not PMOing. I just realised during my PMO addiction, when I did get laid, I'd be focused very much on the visuals of sex. Eg my "D" going in and out of her "V" as opposed to being "in the moment". Anyone else the same? It's like I needed the visual stimulation more than the intimacy. This is a revelation for me lol
Similar for me and still is. Still in the PMO but during the time that I wasn't so really last I checked, it's been awhile since we tried, I needed a specific position and sensations (where my hands are and what their touching) to be aroused enough to orgasm when having sex with my wife. Now that I typed that out... That sounds really messed up.
