When you start to get more confident?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Captain K'nuckles, Jun 24, 2017.

  1. Captain K'nuckles

    Captain K'nuckles Fapstronaut

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    For those who fight against social anxiety, how long in your streak you take to get more confortable in social situations?
     
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  2. The_Monk

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    It depends. I think testosterone is the key think for confidence in men. At around 1 week, we may experiance a hike in our confidence.
     
  3. LKT

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    I'm still kinda waiting for it so YMMV
     
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  4. Sozboss92

    Sozboss92 Fapstronaut

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    I started to feel more confident about two weeks. But this is different for all people. Also, I made an effort to be more outgoing. Remember, just quitting pmo will not fix all your problems. Keep going man!
     
  5. I Free I

    I Free I Guest

    It depends upon the person . Everybody's path is different .
     
  6. Xience

    Xience Guest

    Patience and Progress.

    Abandon the concept of a 'streak' and grow.
     
  7. avatarivn

    avatarivn Fapstronaut

    In my case, I started to improve my confidence about 2 weeks on Hard mode. So far, I noticed a slight improvement on day 30, so my point it might take a while but you have to keep your streak way beyond a couple of days.
     
  8. Captain K'nuckles

    Captain K'nuckles Fapstronaut

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    In a previous streak i time ago just in day 5 i already feel way more confident, but i think now will take longer because of the mutilple relapses i was having like in about 1-3 days streak
     
  9. Will_power_now

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    I feel more confident (in every aspect) when I tell myself to do something and I really do it.

    Setting goals and reaching them gives confidence, even if they are small.
    I have a plan for you:

    - Talk to 10 random people on the street (ask them for the time, for a direction..whatever..just talk to them)
    - Do 10 Pushups every day
    - Don't drink alcohol
    - Do "no pmo"

    Accomplish these tasks in the next 10 days and check the results.
     
  10. I WILL QUIT

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    Confidence before my second streak came at day 12 and super confidence at day 30
     
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  11. YngwieWanksteen

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    I think this is true! Following through on something, so it's like you actually trust yourself. You know you're going to do something when you say or plan to do it!

    I think this has happened to me too! At day 30(hope it gets even BETTER past day 30) I still consider myself very green, but to anybody who's listening, please don't laugh. Probably don't have to say that since there's always someone who can relate or feel the same...

    I was down at the beach with a friend yesterday and I walked the whole promenade without a shirt on. Now, that used to be impossible for me. First, I didn't like going where there would be so many women I wouldn't look in the eye and I was self concious about my body! But instead I was looking at women, smiling, talking! Even had him take a picture of me because I wanted to show my mom, she'd never believe me!(I have let her in on what I am doing with NoFap)
     
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  12. Spidermonky77

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    Amazing!!!! I hope to be that way too on day 30. I'm at day 20 now and I'm slowly starting to feel comfortable with my body. Congrats on 30 days man that's so awesome! There is power in unity!!!
     
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  13. YngwieWanksteen

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    It happened very quickly over the last few days. Actually, it's a bit terrifying in a way. Suddenly it's like a whole new world of opportunity and that frightens me a bit!
     
  14. I am still working on getting my self esteem and confidence back. I have been treated very bad and it damaged me deeply. Def my reboot helps me being proud of myself again. I am thinking to re-read a book by Wayne Dyer that helped to boost my confidence "You'll See It When You Believe It" great book :emoji_notebook_with_decorative_cover:
     
  15. I WILL QUIT

    I WILL QUIT Fapstronaut

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    That's what I'm talking about Boi!! Show them who's boss!!
     
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