Sorry for the provocative title! I was talking with my wife a few days ago about NoFap and what an amazing support it has been for me as I struggle to rid my life of pornography. I told her about the posts containing techniques I’ve found really useful and about how people have posted that my advice (or even just my three-digit counter) has inspired and helped them. Then she asked if I get advice from the men here who have been porn free for much longer than me. Do I? There are men here that have counters set to 500+ who have not used porn for ages, even more than five years (that’s 1,826 days!) but where are they? Does anyone have good tips on how to find the posts from the people with super-long porn-free streaks? The search facility lets me search by username, by recency of post, or by search term but how do I find the posts by people way way further in their journey? I don’t want to sound ungrateful for the other posts. I get inspiration from the posts of newcomers, I often pick up useful tips from the people who have been here longer but keep relapsing, and I find the honest pain and hope in the posts by our wives and girlfriends a real motivation, but it would be good to read posts about how it feels, what techniques are different, is there an end to this, etc. from those with long term success.