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Hi,
I've just joined and have been encouraged to write a little introduction, so here goes.
I live in Denmark and am in my mid-40's. I have joined because I recognize that I have a problem, which I need support to solve. I have for many years watched far too much porn and masturbated far too much. The latter much more than the former.
Up until recently, I have recognized that it was something I did too much, but I saw it as a 'victim-less crime', but I have come to understand that it is not true. My behavior may strain my relationship to my wife (we have a fantastic marriage, but we do not have a lot of sex). My behavior also sustains a shady porn industry where many young women are doing things they really don’t want to do and it maintains a wrong image of women in general. Finally, if I had a dollar for every hour spent on porn and masturbating I would be a wealthy man. It is taking up a lot of my precious time.
I don’t know how hard this will be - this is my first day – but I have a feeling it will be really hard in a week or so or when I get stressed out at work again or something, so I really need your support and appreciate any I can get.
I don't know what my goal should be. On one hand I would like to reduce the level to somehing which is ok and many even healthy (?), but on the other hand maby the goal should be to quit it altogether? Which goals do you have?
Was that introduction enough or do you want any more details?
Look forward to meeting you on this platform.
The Danish Guy
I've just joined and have been encouraged to write a little introduction, so here goes.
I live in Denmark and am in my mid-40's. I have joined because I recognize that I have a problem, which I need support to solve. I have for many years watched far too much porn and masturbated far too much. The latter much more than the former.
Up until recently, I have recognized that it was something I did too much, but I saw it as a 'victim-less crime', but I have come to understand that it is not true. My behavior may strain my relationship to my wife (we have a fantastic marriage, but we do not have a lot of sex). My behavior also sustains a shady porn industry where many young women are doing things they really don’t want to do and it maintains a wrong image of women in general. Finally, if I had a dollar for every hour spent on porn and masturbating I would be a wealthy man. It is taking up a lot of my precious time.
I don’t know how hard this will be - this is my first day – but I have a feeling it will be really hard in a week or so or when I get stressed out at work again or something, so I really need your support and appreciate any I can get.
I don't know what my goal should be. On one hand I would like to reduce the level to somehing which is ok and many even healthy (?), but on the other hand maby the goal should be to quit it altogether? Which goals do you have?
Was that introduction enough or do you want any more details?
Look forward to meeting you on this platform.
The Danish Guy