Which is the first fap you're truly responsible for?

I would say, technically, he would be responsible and headed down the wrong path when he faps as a stress coping mechanism. For there it turns into a habit bc your brain found out a new great way to deal with stress. And then that habit slowly transforms into an addiction that has, as we all are abundantly clear of, negative consequences.

 

It’s not

 

Well for me I always light scented candles and scatter rose petals in the bath before I have a session, so maybe that's where we disagree!