Which is the most destructive between P and M ?

Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by FrenchWinner, Feb 22, 2018.

  1. FrenchWinner

    FrenchWinner Fapstronaut

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    I'm 19 and I have PIED problems although i didn't see porn that much in comparison with many guys on this forum (maximum 1 a day and 5 minutes). I was not addcited to P and during my M sessions i even prefered to M to my own fantasizes and girls i know.

    However I Mo ed since the age of 10 3 times a day. A day when i was punished to stay at home in my bedroom i mo'd 11 times (i know it's crazy but i had NOTHING to do).
    My MO did'nt last more than 5 minutes and i didn't edge. Yet i didn't watch porn i imagined during my fapping sessions hardcore sex about real girls i know such as classmates.

    Do you think "Fantasizes"-induced-erectyle dysfunction be real ?
     
  2. ChefBrian

    ChefBrian New Fapstronaut

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    I'm kind of new to this website but I'd say P is much more destructive than M. Your problem is MO'ing too much i think. Fantasizing shouldn't be nearly as bad for you as P would be. 3x a day for any type of M Is too much though, I'd suggest moving down to 1 MO a day, then if that works for you for a while try to go every other day instead of daily. You'll gain a lot more libido
     
  3. FrenchWinner

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    Indeed i had my first sexual experience 2 mounths ago where my partner humiliated me and got me off of her flat because i couldn't get it up. After that i couldn't get it up even with porn tht's how i discovered NoFap. im in a 54 days hardcore mode streak and i tested yesterday i could erect with just touch and i couldn't i don't know what to do

    Moreover yes my sexual fantasizes when M were hardcore it was a porn moovie in my head. And OverM led me to M even when i was soft after several sessions. However i recovered my erections after 2 days of no M when i had to. I think i always had Morning wood but my spontaneous erections were very scarce (in fact maybe i didn't notice them beacause i didnt care) i don't even remember when i had my last one but i'm sure i got one before i was 15.

    What do you think of my situation? Could a horrible first sexual experience make so much damage on my erections even after a significant streak ?
     
  4. ChefBrian

    ChefBrian New Fapstronaut

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    After the horrible experience with sex your mind is likely associating sex with nervousness and is giving you anxiety about it happening again. 54 days hardcore is crazy impressive and you should be proud of yourself for it. One bad experience doesn't mean you can't ever enjoy sex again, but it probably did just throw you off. Keep going strong with nofap man, and when you try to get erect/stay erect it's important to just relax. The more you overthink it the worse it will get, so if you can calm your nerves a little bit you might see a difference. From your past in MOing you clearly had a sexual drive and you still have that inside you, if you can direct that sexual energy back to natural intercourse and stay away from slipping into fantasizing you will probably start to see it come back.

    Stay strong man!
     
  5. successstory

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    IMO and exp even masturbation alone can give you a short lived ED (1-2 days). And adding fantasy to it might make it a bit longer by making you super wired to imagination rather than real touch and vision. But nothing can be as destructive as porn. Even by looking at porn and not M or O for 2-5 mins sends me right back to flatline and i cant have sex for few days. Stay away from porn as you are and just have sex or masturbate clean if you really have to. Good luck!
     
  6. FrenchWinner

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    Thanks
    Another question im on a 56 days hardmode streak and i was flatlining the previous week
    However since monday i have huge urges (not to watch P or M but sex)
    I fantasized in my bed for like a few minutes but didnt M ( not continiously but by phases). The bad thing is that i imagined soft sex like massage by imaginating a hooker i saw on a trigger ad on the internet.
    I got pleasure of this but i really wonder if im back ti day 0
    I have huge energy these days how not to fanatsize ? When i have to do nothing the evening in bed before sleeping it is impossible not to do it.
    It arrives when i daydreams and it shuts down my conscious part of my brain leading my Sexual thoughts to spreadwhen i don't realize it immediatly
     
  7. successstory

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    No you arent back to day 0. All of those experiences are part of the NoFap streak. You are basically facing the challenges of it. With time your mind will clear up and you can think and act normal. Keep it up brother!
     
  8. FrenchWinner

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    The strabge thing is that begore 6m50 days i had no inclination to fanatsize again it must be he contrary ?
    With the time i should get over it ? Because since this week i have more urges toward sexual thoughts
     
  9. Wow, you wanted to give your virginity to someone and you was humilitatted and kicked out of the flat because of not being able to get hard in this quite stressful situation... thats utterly INSANELY disgusting. But honestly, its something Id expect from nowadays "relationships"...

    Man, dont let that shit get to your head. That "woman".... you will never meet anyone as bad as she was. She just topped everything...

    BUT

    It was YOU who chose such a partner, right? Learn from this experience next time.

    Good luck and stay strong!
     

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