Who can relate?

Discussion in 'Partner Support' started by Jagliana, Feb 9, 2018.

  1. Jagliana

    Jagliana Fapstronaut

    This is me, more often then not... especially when he leaves for work, kids are in bed and I'm alone with my thoughts...


    What songs do you listen to when you're sad about all of this and feel alone?
  2. Jagliana

    Jagliana Fapstronaut

    Some of the songs I listen to; sadness has no genre:

    Camila Cabello - Something's Gotta Give
    Camila Cabello - Consequences
    Tamia - Stranger In My House
    Christina Aguilera - Walk Away
    P!nk - Family Portrait
    P!nk - Just Give Me a Reason
    Eminem - Rock Bottom
    Mary J. Blige - No More Drama
    Backstreet Boys - Show Me the Meaning of Being Lonely
    Lorde - A World Alone
    Bruno Mars - When I Was Your Man
    Hoobastank - The Reason
  3. WantsToBelieve

    WantsToBelieve Fapstronaut

    All very good choices. Here are some of my own:

    Kelly Clarkson - Cry (but I do prefer the Glee version myself)
    Evanescence - Missing
    Alex & Sierra - Little Do You Know
    Colbie Caillat - Try
    Katelyn Tarver - You Don't Know
    Beyonce - If I Were A Boy
    The Red Jumpsuit Apparatus - Face Down
    Halestorm - Familiar Taste of Poison
    Skillet - It's Not Me It's You

    More later if you'd like me to share more. :emoji_blue_heart:
  4. Jagliana

    Jagliana Fapstronaut

    So awesome! Yes please, I would appreciate it!
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  5. Queen_Of_Hearts_13

    Queen_Of_Hearts_13 Fapstronaut

    So I have two playlists

    "This is my everday existence" and "Will you ever feel this way about me"

    I'll post the second playlist because it's much shorter.

    "Will you ever feel this way about me"

    Fall For You - Secondhand Seranade
    Your Guardian Angel- The Red Jumpsuit Apparatus
    Drunk Enough - Angels Fall
    Until Death Do Us Part - Alkaline Trio
    Undone - FFH
    Kelsey - Metro Station
    If I'm James Dean, You're Audrey Hepburn - Sleeping With Sirens (it's our wedding song)
    I'll Take You There - Sleeping With Sirens
    2 Chord- Sleeping With Sirens
    The Reason- Hoobastank
    You - Candlebox
    Hollow Hearts Unite - Hawthorne Heights
    Bring You Back - Hawthorne Heights
    Hero/Heroine - Boys Like Girls
    Cold - Crossfade
    Savin me -Nickelback
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  6. Jagliana

    Jagliana Fapstronaut

    So cool :) Going to Amazon so much tonight! :)
  7. Jennica

    Jennica Fapstronaut

    Billy Holiday for me. I will listen to her for hours ( we the complete works) while distracting myself with house work or crafting.
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  8. Broken81

    Broken81 Fapstronaut

    I have a very eclectic music collection but here are some songs that have new meanings to me lately:
    Eve 6 - Inside out
    Disturbed('s version of)- sound of silence
    Kelly Clarkson - Because of you
    Bush - Come down
    Greenday - 21 guns
    Skunk Anansie - Hedonism
    Andre day - Rise Up
    Matchbox 20 - how far we've come
    Rolling Stones - Paint it Black
    Weezer - the world has turned and left me here.
    When I can't stop thinking about stuff I turn the music up and clean. "Alexa, play Pandora 90s alternative at volume 8" :)
  9. Darkligh

    Darkligh Fapstronaut

    Hi, I met my now ex on Sisters of Mercy gig in Dublin in 2014. Long long story short. We become friends on Facebook and found many things in common aspecially taste in music .Both Goths in their 40's.
    I became fan of Sisters of Mercy, Joy Division, Bauhaus, The Cure etc.since I was 14 years old. I feel like he took everything from me even this beautiful songs. Sorry I'm very emotional right now. We are not together since June 2017 .He is in new relationship with another goth girl 5 years younger than me and 8 years younger than him.Recently I discovered he added her to the one of the fans group (he is addmin)of our favourite band . It was in May when we were still together and very soon after Dday.
    I feel like everything was taken from me. Even fucking music.
    Sorry , this post is chaotic .I'm very emotional and upset right now and my English is not my first language.
    Band and song I found after we broke up.

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  10. Jennica

    Jennica Fapstronaut

    Nice to meet another elder goth!
  11. Darkligh

    Darkligh Fapstronaut

    Wow! Goths not dead!
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  12. Jennica

    Jennica Fapstronaut

    Strong living in the Pacific NW!
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  13. ItsNeverTooLate

    ItsNeverTooLate Fapstronaut

    If I decide to clean then I listen to pop music or dance music. The singing and dancing with the broom make me laugh and feel less alone.:) I reserve the rock: Misfits, NIN, Rancid, Korn, etc. for scrubbing the bathroom. Sometimes a person needs an excuse to be able to scream. ;)

    Songs that trigger sad tears:

    P!nk - So What!
    Cascada - Faded
    Gotye - Somebody That I Used To Know
    Bruno Mars - When I Was Your Man
    Adele - All I Ask
    Amy Lee/Fiona Apple - Sally’s Song (from “Nightmare Before Christmas”)

    Songs that trigger happy tears:

    Death Cab for Cutie - I Will Follow You Into The Dark
    Bruno Mars - Just The Way You Are
    Elvis Presley - Can’t Help Falling In Love
    Lana Del Rey - Once Upon a Dream (from “Maleficent”)

    **EDIT** (Just heard on Disney Pandora - have on low in kitten room)

    Amy Adams - That’s How You Know (from Enchanted)
    Last edited: Feb 11, 2018

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