Who does one deal with Jealousy?

FaithWithGod

FaithWithGod

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Doesn't it hurt when you see your crush going out with a group of friends & you have to make sure that they aren't dating any of the guys?
Whenever I am not involved in an outdoor activity with friends, I always feel like they'll forget about me & are okay without me. And this really kinda always spoils my mood for the day.
One instance just happened right now, I was having a perfectly normal day & then I decided to call a girl I like(We study in same college) to ask her if she had paid her college fees, but I heard my senior(A good friend of mine) speaking next to her with a couple of more people(People I consider "Cool") and a rush of depression just hit me. The thoughts of why I wasn't there/does she like hanging out with my senior over me/I also wanna be friends with the other people.
So yea my day has kind of been spoiled by my mind. I really hate it and I try but the depression won't go away easy.
I should be having a normal day with a happy content mood but here I am posting this because I am in pain
 
MindfulWarrior said:
Try to spend more time with people or ask her out, staying in your corner being depressed and anxious won't help you in any way. If it doesn't work maybe it'll hurt but then you can move on. I don't know, just what I think.
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Look that's not the problem,
Assume she's my girlfriend in the above situation. I would still feel the same things
 
FaithWithGod said:
Doesn't it hurt when you see your crush going out with a group of friends & you have to make sure that they aren't dating any of the guys?
Whenever I am not involved in an outdoor activity with friends, I always feel like they'll forget about me & are okay without me. And this really kinda always spoils my mood for the day.
One instance just happened right now, I was having a perfectly normal day & then I decided to call a girl I like(We study in same college) to ask her if she had paid her college fees, but I heard my senior(A good friend of mine) speaking next to her with a couple of more people(People I consider "Cool") and a rush of depression just hit me. The thoughts of why I wasn't there/does she like hanging out with my senior over me/I also wanna be friends with the other people.
So yea my day has kind of been spoiled by my mind. I really hate it and I try but the depression won't go away easy.
I should be having a normal day with a happy content mood but here I am posting this because I am in pain
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You are seeking attention from girls.
Why should you wanna know why she paid her college fees?
You better seek healthy attention from mature men who understands your issues, your depression, your addiction, your low self esteem.
Men need men first to become mature.
If I were you I would invest in some professional help.
You will be surprised how much your life will cheer up. Good chance the same people will ask you to join their meetings.

First things first.
 
MindfulWarrior said:
Then your problem is control. Easier said than done but we have to relinquish control, why would you worry that someone doesn't want you anymore and wants someone else? If that's the case there's nothing to do about it but let go.
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And the root under control is fear and insecurity.
 
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