I never said anything to do with sex, other then the fact that I've never had any. A lot of virgins have either failed with a woman, or more commonly, have never been able to have one in the first place, right? There's a reason we're "virgins" and it's to do with ourselves, we need to grow and learn in order to land in a healthy/romantic relationship. Of course you don't have to have sex and choose to be celibate, but that's not for me. Here's the thing, I don't just want a girlfriend to have sex with, to me that's just a part of the relationship that happens through romance and other factors including growing closer. What I'm saying is for the ones that want to be in a normal/sexual relationship, we need to fix our problems such as porn amongst other issues need to be resolved before even attempting to look for one.